Topic: How do you get people to chat?
dugger269's photo
Tue 10/23/07 10:38 PM
It seems that every time I try and chat with someone I cannot get through. Am I doing something wrong?

adj4u's photo
Tue 10/23/07 10:39 PM
they may have their i m turned off

or not be on

no photo
Tue 10/23/07 10:39 PM
I would think maybe its becasue they dont want to chat ... you should try posting for awhile send some emails and go from there

Jtevans's photo
Tue 10/23/07 10:47 PM
yeah alot of them don't like using the IM,so try posting in the forums and let everyone get to know you then send some emails and if you find someone you connect with,ask her if she wants to use IM.

no photo
Tue 10/23/07 10:55 PM
FIND FORUMS THAT INTEREST YOU ....POST SO PEOPLE GET A FEEL OF WHO YOU ARE.....HAVE FUN AND ENJOY

dugger269's photo
Tue 10/23/07 11:03 PM
thanks guys I am new to this whole IM web dating thing

no photo
Tue 10/23/07 11:04 PM
your welcome and have a good time

Puffins1958's photo
Wed 10/24/07 08:08 AM
dugger...

Hello and welcome to JSH, I hope you have a great time here...
It's soooo much fun!!!

flowerforyou


Twitch's photo
Wed 10/24/07 08:10 AM
Just jump in and let people get to know you; that's what I did and I'm having a great time and met so many really nice people

no photo
Thu 10/25/07 12:43 PM
i have not had much luck figuring this out. are there real people on here?

purplecat's photo
Thu 10/25/07 12:45 PM
I just jump in an say somethin stupid.......laugh
usually within a few minites you get comments.......bigsmile laugh

bgeorge's photo
Thu 10/25/07 12:45 PM
welcome dugger and jimmyjames...bflowerforyou

celticfairy's photo
Thu 10/25/07 12:45 PM
Hi Guys just enjoy flowerforyou Im realbigsmile

no photo
Thu 10/25/07 12:46 PM
try to email them first......I rarely talk to anyone random on IM....flowerforyou

PJ1987's photo
Thu 10/25/07 12:46 PM
I can't get my IM for this site to work, don't try to IM me everybody!!!

no photo
Thu 10/25/07 12:47 PM
gypsy talks ot me randomly all the time

dugger269's photo
Thu 10/25/07 12:52 PM
e-mail IM still no reply from some. I know I have a bad pit but will you please get to know me.