Topic: what do you think?
Brocefus's photo
Sun 01/03/16 07:54 PM
I would love to know what the ladies on here think of me.

PacificStar48's photo
Sun 01/03/16 08:48 PM
Probably be more effective to sell the positives than the laundry list of negatives. What the heck do you have behind your head? Bad lead shot.

Brocefus's photo
Sun 01/03/16 09:11 PM
it's a blanket and what negatives are you talking about

PacificStar48's photo
Sun 01/03/16 10:16 PM
Why do you need to say your shy, rusty, haven't dated? How is that helping your case?

Brocefus's photo
Mon 01/04/16 12:28 AM
the way I see it, most people want an honest person. I would much rather someone be honest about themselves than lie and pretend to be someone they're not

no photo
Mon 01/04/16 04:54 AM

the way I see it, most people want an honest person. I would much rather someone be honest about themselves than lie and pretend to be someone they're not

Why ask for opinions if you can't take the answers.

no photo
Mon 01/04/16 05:04 AM
I don't think saying that one is shy and rusty at dating is something negative, so it probably depends upon a reader's perspective. Personally, I thought it was adorable.

Anyhoo, you may want to add more pictures where more of you can be seen and not the blanket. :) You can list some hobbies, maybe things you'd like to also read at a prospect's profile.

Good luck to you and welcome to Mingle!

Vashoncowboy's photo
Mon 01/04/16 11:14 PM
I am open for suggestions here, hence the reason for this post, lol,

elana624's photo
Tue 01/05/16 12:33 AM
Ur more heavy then what I go4

elana624's photo
Tue 01/05/16 12:34 AM
She's right you asked for feedback but you're closed minded and you don't want to hear it

chickzy1989's photo
Tue 01/05/16 06:05 AM
nice yeepeee

PacificStar48's photo
Tue 01/05/16 05:10 PM

the way I see it, most people want an honest person. I would much rather someone be honest about themselves than lie and pretend to be someone they're not


I did not suggest you should say anything untrue about yourself but surely you can find something positive about yourself. A hobby interest, a complimentary personality trait (Honesty), a lifestyle.

If all you post are your faults/weaknesses how does that encourage someone to want to be your date?

Sorry I don't pick someone who says I am going to be a training wheels date to go out with.

And I don't pick someone who expects me to go out with them several times to get used to dating or get over being shy. Someone thinks that is cute well go for it. I just don't think most people want a date to be a school for someone else. Seems kind of like a rip off. Hang out with friends or take a class to become social enough to be fun with/date.

I take the time to go out with someone I want to enjoy the first date. I don't I sure won't invest my time in another if the first one came with a job.