I keep searching for a woman who is Romantic,real and accepting. Faithful, honest,adventurous or at least willing to be adventurous both in public and private life. A woman interested in me,but have seen none. Do real single women still exist on this site or are all taken. I need a soulmate.

Pls,what's is your view aabout the topic.

may be not

Hi Enderbarron, welcome to M2. This is a free dating site so there are lots of fakecarroos. But, there are also real ones who are here looking faithful, honest, adventurous men like you.

Good luck in your search.

If you read the profile you can see why he will never be picked. Mini melt down tantrum. Just a waste of time.

Oh well, he then needs more than luck. He needs a miracle.

I went to his profile too... He's been here since Jan 1..
Lots of patience eh?

If I really thought he was military, I DO NOT, I would screen shot it and forward it to Military Criminal Investigative Division.

Because this guy is demonstrating "behavior unbecoming" and the military takes this very seriously. His chain of command would sit on him like a ton of bricks for this kind of public attack.

IT IS NOT typical behavior of most professional soldiers. PLEASE do not judge military members by this or other wanna be fakers tantrums.

It's pretty typical for online daters.


This is never a positive thing to say.
It denotes some combination of the following:

1. You feel entitled. As though "searching" gives you brownie points of some kind, or you've suffered some kind of hardship for not having your "soulmate" your entire life.
By being single, by not finding the woman you want, that just makes you normal, like everybody else. Not a victim.

2. No woman so far is good enough, so more than likely no future woman will be either, or your expectations are really high.
If a woman reads about you "keep searching for a woman..." with even an iota of insecurity, they are going to run away, knowing they aren't going to be good enough either.
If a woman reads this and she has absolutely no insecurities whatsoever she's either going to be turned off by your insecurity, or not contact you waiting for you to contact her because you have to prove that you are "good enough" for her.
If you do get contacted by a woman it's going to be one with a lot of insecurities that has told herself she has none so has to play the part, and it's just going to lead to games as you come to realize the image doesn't match the reality.

3. That no woman wants to be found by you. It's said a lot; "you're the common denominator." Searching for women is not like searching for a can of spaghettio's. They have 50% of the choice and are looking just as much as you are.

4. You're getting frustrated which leads to either taking out your frustrations on those you date, or you will take shortcuts in order to make up for all that time spent searching, possibly becoming things like "clingy" if there's a hint of mutual compatibility no matter how tenuous.

Saying "I keep searching for..." never says anything all that good about you.

And then when you end it with

then the picture you are portraying is you are a victim, it's their fault, you are entitled to have your needs met, everyone should know it and care.

That's pretty typical for online daters.
So, that's what I think about the topic.

well darling then I encourage you to expand your search

One look at your profile....

Fail....

Not soulmate material....

A 360 degree turnaround is required....
And then you might get lucky....

Keep doing what works best for you.