i was corresponding nicely with someone I was interested in a great deal. Then I went to write her and she and all the messages she wrote are gone, dissapeared.. what happened to them??????? they were sent to me, why have they dissapeared?? i wanted to review them to see if there was something I missed.
Don't we have some kind of responsability toward each other to NOT waist time and if for any reason we're going to leave.. give notice and small explanation??? Also, isn't it the intention to actually meet people????? Why arn't people interested in meeting? It is a catch 22, if one presses to meet then they get suspicious or think your too pushy. But if one doesn't then a lot of time can be waisted on a fake!!! What to do?????????? Help, I'm at my wits end!! Thanks

Welcome to JSH

I have no idea why they dissapeared.
If a person deactivates- their letters still stay in your
mail. You just can't e-mail them.

Hi and welcome

Welcome .... that sounds like maybe administration took them off?????

you know..when someone pushes you to meet them..after 3 e-mails on here..and i phone conversation..its SCARY! all the crazy people that can just lie on here..and say they are someone their not..it can really push you away..you have to be open ..and open to the other persons feeling too..not just your own....it isnt easy being online and talking to a total stranger..its a trust issue..when you gain trust..and get to know someone..and arent so pushy...you have a better chance..

If someone blocks you, the e-mails disappear. At least that's what happened when I had to block someone.