has somebody done you wrong? have you forgiven that person already?
well, unforgiveness is like a carbon dioxide in our body..if you wont exhale it..you'd get poisoned..unforgiveness is like an umbilical cord to the past..and whatever you dont forgive, you re-live..

if you dont want that nightmare of your past ruin your future ahead, you gotta cut that cord that connects you to your past..before you can open the door to your future, you have to close the door to your past first..

why not just forgive and forget..well, yeah..easier said than done..but hey, you gotta make a choice..its a sale anyway,atleast youd be able to get rid of the thing that could be a drawback in your life ahead..and besides,everything is under God's control..only if you trust him..and besides, everyone loves a sale, dont you?

I can honestly say that right now, I have no grudges and/or issues with ANYONE! Even some of those kooks in Current Events and Religious Chat can't get to me, even tho some of them are really trying !

Remember, never go to bed mad. Let everyone you care about know that you care.

I am having a problem in that department right now...Takes me a longtime to forgive sometimes...Particularily when things seem to be ongoing and there is nothing that even resembles an apology!!!!!!!!!!

Just more grief!!!!!!!!!

There is no person in this world that can tell you when to forgive. You will forgive that person in your own time, when you yourself can.

I always forgive, but never forget. If you've ever done something to the nature to me, Ill carry it strait to my grave, with that grudge in my head,

that isnt forgiveness then!!!

Being angry with someone is like letting them live in your mind rent free

and usually the person you are angry with could care less ...

let it go and move on

If someone has seriously wronged you, and hurt you deeply, it takes time to work through the emotional and mental wreckage. Forgiveness is not instant. Depending on what happened, and how deeply it affected you, it could take a very long time to reach the point of forgiveness. Everyone comes to that place in their own good time.

well you're right.. but what's actually the good time for you? when that someone is already gone?..haste makes waste, but, life is too short..gotta use it wise, by enjoying life..and joy has nothing to do with anger or unforgiveness

You cant hold on forever!!

exactly