Alright people, here is my dilemma, I’ve been chatting with a women
closer to my age and it seems like it could go some where, but I also
been corresponding via e-mail with a young lady from over seas and this
also looks like it could lead to something and she’s flying in, in about
2 or 3 weeks, I have not met either one face to face yet. The only
difference is that the one from overseas is twenty-five years old,,,I’m
old enough to be her father. What would you do, how would you choose,
don’t want to choose on beauty alone, although overseas is hot, I mean
be on a 10

Don't make a decision until you've met both...and make sure they both
understand that meeting them does not mean marriage or anything else
serious...it's just a meeting in person. Also, just because the one from
overseas is so young, doesn't mean she won't be perfect for you. You
won't know until you've met both face to face. And, the chance exists,
that upon meeting them you'll only want to be friends with both...:)

THANKS REST FOR UR INPUT,DON'T KNOW WHEN iLL MEET THE ONE CLOSER TO MY
AGE AND OVERSEAS IS STAYING FOR 3 MONTHS ON A WORK VISA, I REALY DON'T
WANT TO LEAD HER ON, WHICH IS WHAT I THINK IS HAPPENING, I HAVE A
FEELING THAT SHE MIGHT BE MISSING SOMTHING IN THE TRANSLATION

Personally I would go with my heart? If they are both hot (women) then I
would Still find the one that I could see my love in HER eyes? Now for
long life love, the age being so far apart with the younger one?, I
would believe that the one closer to your age would ALSO know and WANT
your love FOR-EVER?
Where as the younger one might just be a FOR-KICKS thing, or lose
interest in you as you age more?
So I guess it all come's down to what you are ready for in life ?
End-less love to death or Nice while it lasted?
Just my thoughts? LOL

i would definitely meet both of them and spend a little time together
before i made a decision on either of them. don't let the age or the
beauty be a deciding factor, good luck

hi, poison
I think that it depends on what kind of relationship
your looking for, because
think about it 25 y/o do you think you can have a
relationship with her that is going to last?,
but then again you can have your cake and eat it 2
how do you feel about that?
that is the question,?

Just remember there's no rush to make a decision...better to delay and
make the right one than rush and make the wrong one. Believe me...I
speak from experience! Good luck & keep us posted. :)

After reading your last comments, JUST wandering if your over=sea lady
is REAL, right? There are alot of over-sea's scams with woman going
around? I've had four contact me to bring them here on a visa,------
mine? lol
Just be careful?

thanks guy, thats just the way I feel, not thinking at all with my littl
head, but man, in her emails it sounds like she's gona move right in and
I got 2 rroom mate , and hell i dont know , maybe i'm just mis reading
this hole thing

yes 4u is right
be carefull

lol keep your doors locked!!

IAM4...got mail this mornin with a bunch of family pic and was informed
that she will be telling her parens about me so that they know that
there is some one waiting for her...now you tell me what dose that sound
like to u

and make like i'm not home, i don't know call me stupit, i sent her the
codes for the 3 air ports here

hi morena...in her letter to day i got pic of her mon and dad...mon is
much younger than dad and she kind of sort of i don't know possobly the
hint was there

POISON, dude im telling ya?
I had a russian lady writing me everyday sending me nice pics of her
talking ALL about her life there and I am telling you WHAT? They
(letters) had the MOST heart I have ever read?
Mine ended when she could not MAIL me a paper letter from russa?
I asked to show me she was real and she was 29 and very cute.
She acted upsit by my request and never heard another word?
I guess she did'nt like to really write? LOL??

thanks to all, you have all give good advise as apose to being
childish...thsnks again, i'll let you all know hoe this little saga
plays out

i hear you IAM

HEY, HOW DID YOU KNOW MY OVERSEAS WAS FROM RUSSIA LOL