Ok... I have a question... Why do married men seek out single women to
be "friends"? The kicker is that they openly admit that they are
married... I am a loyal and faithful person when I am in a relationship
and I have learned the hard and fast way to accept my partners female
friends... but to seek out new female "friends" is just wrong.. or am I
missing something... I feel that this behavior is totally
unacceptable...I have had married men tell me that they are looking for
friends or possibly more... this completely disgusts me...So my question
is this.... Why do married me seek out single women to be friends?

YOU KNOW I DON'T EVEN KNOW THAT QUESTION!!!! BUT FOR YOUR AGE LADY YOU
SURE ARE PRETTY!

With my ex i could have no friends male or female. She needed to be the
center of my attention...even over the kids....so I have no clue....my
only guess would be to set up something down the road because the man is
not happy...bu thats only a guess based on my thoughts.

I understand exactly what you are talking about, I have been there but I
think married men go for single, beautiful, and innocent looking women.
Women they think they can take advantage of.

Midnight, I accept your argument of married man case. If he is start
looking for new friends to fulfil his interest. There are many cases why
women also change men also for new interest. Marriage is one form
binding if you say then all women should not try for children with
friends unless married. We may not get answer easily since lot of single
women like married man only!!!

I'm single but most of my friends seem to be female and believe me I
made those friends AFTER my divorce because my Ex was a totalitarian and
I had very few male friends even. Anyway.... I think the "friends maybe
more" is as disgusting as you Star because it's a thinly veiled attempt
at foolin around. "Searching" for new friends of the opposite sex is
exploring other opportunities because he isn't happy at home but it's
still wrong. "Making" friends of the opposite sex just because you met
someone by chance in a setting where you got to know them a bit is one
thing and I fully believe in friends of the opposite sex and don't have
a problem with it but if he's "looking" then that's just what he's
doing.... looking :(

damn escapedlunatic was we married to the same woman?

well Midnight with a fine looking woman like you what man would want
another woman.

When I was married I never had done that. My friends were her friends.
I understand why you feel the way you feel. But the only thing I can
come up with, is that some people wether they are married or not will
away be the same. They only think of themselves.

Age doesn't matter, you are a very pretty lady! And the same question
arises from the othere side. My ex had tons of guy friends and left me
for one of them.....:(

I been there and done that with married guys sometime I think there is
something wrong with because I'm only attrative to married men. I need
good single guy who know how to treat me right:)

I will not messed around with married mens. They will never leave their
wives and u will end up seconds left overs.

I know this from expirence.... He loved me ohhhh so much, until his wife
found out about me...oh and I forgot the pregnancy...he wasn't there
during any of that either and did she find out...yeah right.

They start making excuses i will see u on my time. Yeah trying to find
a way to see u without the wifey finding out.

This guy drove a truck, so it was easy for him to make time for me, he
claims he still loves me, but he has another baby on the way with his
wife, who is due 2 weeks after i was supposed to be due.

damn that sucks, but mostly these guy are married and go around
pretending they are single.

I knew this guy was married, so it was my fault, I fell for his lines
only because he was an ex of mine, my first love at that.

I don't understand HOW he was trying to serch and find WOMEN
freinds? Do you mean on line? But biggest problem would be that NO-GUY
should AND NO GAL should be seeking only oppisite sex friends?
Now, why do guys look for women friends? Could be that other guys do not
care to much for him because of?--envey,attitude,
mannerisiams,(if u can read my bad spelling)His bad jokes, ect?
It could be like that? And he just always got along better with women?
THAT'S the only senario that I would buy?
iF HE WAS A REGULAR KIND OF GUY THEN i WOULD SAY HE WAS WANTING TO PLAY
AROUND? Now let me also say that their is just as many women that do
both of the above, JUST AS MUCH AS GUYS DO?
When your a young couple, both will tend to have alot of other sex
friends more so than older couples?
As couples go through life it usually tapers off to the couple
only having couples as friends? Other than life
grew-up-together-friends?
Sorry, I think I've said to much now?lol I hope I helped?

hi iam4u, u are so right.

HI CHICA, YA BEEN THERE DONE THAT TOO, HUH?