I see a lot of mixed posts about wishing. I guess what sticks in my mind is it is NOT selfish to wish because wishing means your brain is formulating a dream into a desire and that is kind of a step towards a plan. A plan is just a map for finding your way to a good thing. It might take some effort, even a few failed attempts, which granted don't always feel like the best experience, but hopefully you have learned something to get closer to success.

Actually sounds like everyone has very normal and attainable wishes and If I was Mrs. Santa and had a little magic I would nudge you all closer with a little Christmas magic. I think with a little creative thinking and asking for your pals help her on Mingle most could be worked out.

High ticket items are the first to go on sale when people need Xmas cash so check the sales on line and in second hand shop. I bought one at a cancer charity sale and did not even know it was the real deal because I don't follow fashion stuff and I thought I was just buying and out of season style for the next spring.

Want something to further a artistic career have you considered a business loan that is usually lower interest? With talent tools are a necessity.

Many people are more than willing to pay for travel if you assist them in traveling with minors, or the disabled, critically ill, or accompanying a deceased person "coming home", even as legit high security package service such as your wing of Fed Ex. Sure you have to be vetted but if you are a good person it is basically free travel. AND it pays very well.

This is basically true of going to see many of the Christmas events locally too. Maybe not be as immediately romantic as having a date pay your way to a "HOT" new movie this year but I met the love of my then life because I had escorted disabled kids to some of the early Star Wars stuff and a friend made ne actually give up my phone number on my spring birthday when I danced with him at a mini party at a club. (Folks ya are not going to meet the love of your live behind your front door. Get out with a Mingle pal and socialize even just a little.)

Family reunions an reunifications are possible if you are willing to compromise and rework expectations. I had all but given up on one with my Dad when at 46 I gave it one last shot.

Getting pets back is a tuffy but I just bet the house on if you wandered the SPCA shelters a few times one little speck of DNA exists in the world of your pet exists and will charm your heart into submission.

And come on there is not a woman or man on Mingle that would not like with the right development to have a nice sexy holiday celebration with the right person once a relationship has taken hold. And most of them really don't mind if it is Christmas in July or 2016 but if you never give any kind of effort into emails, photos, and telling people the facts about who you are you are just day dreaming and not making the plan happen.

There have been many great relations take seed on mingle but you have to plant the seeds and tend the crop to get a harvest. The ones on Mingle who have are happy today.