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Topic: Is it possible?
madamx7316's photo
Fri 10/19/07 03:07 PM
Is it possible to meet someone...never in person but online then get that fuzzy feeling and just know its right?

Jess642's photo
Fri 10/19/07 03:10 PM
As a connection of spirit, yes, as a romantic partner, no.

Well not for me, anyways.

no photo
Fri 10/19/07 03:12 PM
Lets not give the internet that much credit. It is possible to find someone that you enjoy talking to but until you actually get to meet that person in uh, person, atleast with me, I say no.

kidatheart70's photo
Fri 10/19/07 03:13 PM
I get the fuzzy feeling every time I turn on my computer. Maybe my moniter is emitting more radiation than it should be. :tongue:
Could be the coffee too.drinker

madamx7316's photo
Fri 10/19/07 03:14 PM
lmao

BournemouthDesigner's photo
Fri 10/19/07 03:16 PM
I understand what you mean but I don't think the net can be a substitution for meeting someone - speaking on prior experience here!

cutelildevilsmom's photo
Fri 10/19/07 03:20 PM
well i had the warm fuzzies for someone i talked to online and the phone but when we met..nuttin honey.
nothing substitutes for face to face human contact.

no photo
Fri 10/19/07 03:22 PM
Yes.

Puffins1958's photo
Fri 10/19/07 03:23 PM
Up until the time that you get to meet him, I would call it an infatuation. People can be totally different in person as they are online....just from my own experience I know this to be true...

madamx7316's photo
Fri 10/19/07 03:24 PM
ive not been fortunate enough to meet anyone yet or talk to anyone who has done this...was just curious what people thought, ive heard others buzzing about it. who knows....

nurjoyce's photo
Sat 10/20/07 10:15 AM
no, not really
i think you have to meet in person
i did think it was possible, however i was wrong

love is security, honesty, warmth, fuzzy

no photo
Sat 10/20/07 10:17 AM
anything is possible...but on the deeper level you need the physical not meaning to touch him up I mean meet him in person hahahalaugh

no photo
Sat 10/20/07 10:20 AM
I think you can like someone without ever meeting them in person, and I think you can achieve a certain level of comfort and affection for them.

But meeting in person is a whole different thing.

And sometimes all the good stuff just clicks even more in person, and that's great.

But when it doesn't click, it can be a little awkward and disappointing, especially if you've built it up to be something other than the way it turns out....

no photo
Sat 10/20/07 10:39 AM
it all boils down to motives....

we are clouded by our desires and our longings and we want to see them offered back to us thru "the one"


what are we attracted to?
the one that resonates with "OUR MOVIE"..ta da!! a leading role gets casted...etc etc etc ... do i need to go on...to you get the picture??

we are infatuated with our own projections !! the poor unsuspecting being that gets to be the movie screen becomes only the image we want them to be... how many of you out there already know what this is like...???

and you wake up one day and you realize you don't even recognize yourself anymore, and the father of your 5 children has never been the person you "imagined " him to be, ( or vice versa)... and that you have been in an illusion....a projection of what you wanted to believe, and that finally had nothing to do with what was real and true...

how many times do you need to bleed??

before you examine what you are attracted to and your motives....
flowerforyou flowerforyou

kidatheart70's photo
Sat 10/20/07 10:44 AM
It's hard to erase that image of a nuns habit made out of latex rubber ya know.laugh :tongue: :wink:

no photo
Sat 10/20/07 10:48 AM
I think the fuzzy feelings are the excitement of someone new& nice & not bad looking & the whole idea of this could be the "one". But we can try to be like real life over the net...but thats completely impossible.

s1owhand's photo
Sat 10/20/07 10:51 AM
sometimes reality is also fantastic bigsmile

no photo
Sat 10/20/07 11:00 AM
the operative word being 'reality'


:wink: :heart: bigsmile

kidatheart70's photo
Sat 10/20/07 11:32 AM
You people and your "reality"grumble

flowerforyou :heart:

lilwabbit's photo
Sat 10/20/07 12:49 PM
i have met a few that i get really excited when i talk to them. i talk on the phone with them as well and really enjoy their friendship. so far ive only gotten to meet one of them, but it was a greater connection in person. i wouldnt pass it off online, but i wouldnt give it too much credit till you physically meet

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