We are over fifty eight years in a bad relationship with someone that lies about everything. I moved to my own home a year ago but I don't know anyone in this state so I keep talking to her. What an I do

decide in whether or not you want to try and make it work or not. and take action either way

if you know it is over and done, start the process of getting a divorce and finish that before starting a new relationship.


if you aren't sure and want to 'try again' start focusing on the areas you need to fix In your relationship and work on those.

You took the biggest step in the process of ending the relationship without any steps that should have come before that. You were determined enough to buy or rent your own home after all this time but you haven't come to terms internally with yourself that you want to end the relationship. I understand that letting go can be hard but if they can't stop lying to you and hurting you that's what you need to do. If moving away from that person didn't send the message that you are tired of how they treat you what will?

welcome the best advice i can offer is go no contactwhy even bother talking to someone who lies just wasting time better to be alone than with someone who isn't making you happy good luck

ya see, this is why punctuation is important:
1.. You are fifty eight years in a bad relationship or
2.. You are fifty, eight years into a bad relationship

If its bad.. get out.. move on.

ohhh.. pretty and smart

ohhh.. pretty and smart

I can understand and relate completely lastinglife57

I live alone, in a small town, don't have any people to hang out with, and never hear from my family in the same state.

I agree that it is difficult, but if she never tells the truth and is taking advantage of you it is time to move on.

You can do it, you can find happiness on your own, start a hobby, learn something new, and get a pet to keep you company.