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Topic: OK, what the heck... HIT ME! ;)
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Thu 11/19/15 11:26 AM
ya wanna a chick friend with benefits but maybe those are just hanging out together, shooting the BS and having a good time


of course if she was hawt and the other option came up for discussion ya might give it some thought bigsmile

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Sun 11/22/15 05:27 PM
Edited by TBone5280 on Sun 11/22/15 05:29 PM

Maybe it is more the combination "fun and casual", that's how I would describe a 'relationship' I had with a guy where we went out on the town with our separate mates, then hooked up at the end of the night on a regular basis (regular being 3-4 times a week). Then he would hang out with my mates if his weren't out and visa versa. It got to the point where all our mates were hanging out so hooking up was becoming inevitable. When I suggested we actually start dating he wasn't up for it, but we continued as we were for another 3 months after that. During the whole process, if either of us went home with someone else neither of us were bothered, though all of our friends thought it strange as they considered us to be a couple, but "fun and casual" is what it was all about.

So to summarise, it was more than a booty-call but less than a relationship.

If it is a good fun friendship you want, maybe those are the words you should use?happy

Hey EmJ, thanks for the reply. That sounds like a pretty good setup as long as someone's emotions don't get out of control (and I know that girls AND guys can have that happen!) :wink: If I found myself in that kind of situation... Hell, it probably wouldn't be the worst thing that could happen! laugh

It's tough to think of the correct "words I should use", since sure as heck, someone's going to misinterpret "good fun friendship" too... ohwell laugh


ya wanna a chick friend with benefits but maybe those are just hanging out together, shooting the BS and having a good time

of course if she was hawt and the other option came up for discussion ya might give it some thought bigsmile

Yeah, I can see that as a possibility. I'd want to get to know her a little bit first though. :wink: I'm not in a hurry to jump into something new at this point.

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Sun 11/22/15 05:52 PM

Hey EmJ, thanks for the reply. That sounds like a pretty good setup as long as someone's emotions don't get out of control (and I know that girls AND guys can have that happen!) :wink: If I found myself in that kind of situation... Hell, it probably wouldn't be the worst thing that could happen! laugh

It's tough to think of the correct "words I should use", since sure as heck, someone's going to misinterpret "good fun friendship" too... ohwell laugh


It was what we both wanted/needed at the time and we were both open about it, so yeah it worked well until someone else got their hooks into me! Was definitely better than a later 'relationship' that was supposed to be FWB and turned into drunken booty calls. In his defense though, we are friends now and he admitted he was starting to like me, that's why he pulled back and made it less than it had been. Guys!!

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Sun 11/22/15 06:07 PM
Sound like a heartache going somewhere to happen. Fail as a person but he as a profile seems to capture you exactly picture or not. People can pick their poison if they so choose.

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Sun 11/22/15 06:40 PM
Your profile is fun to read. So add a photo already and you're all set to go. Good luck! waving

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Sun 11/22/15 08:16 PM
Hello

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Fri 12/04/15 09:01 PM
sexy

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