We need to be an example to others
in our speech.To be an example "in
word" involves our choice of words,
the content of our words and the
delivery of our words. Our vocabulary
must be free from the swearing,
cursing and filth that permeates the
hearts and minds of the unsaved.
Scripture tells us that "out of the
abundance of the heart the mouth
speaketh" (Matt. 12:34). Therefore,
when our tongues spew forth cursings
or filthy, unseemly words, we know
that a spiritual problem exists within
our hearts that goes deeper than that
which simply comes out of our
mouths.
As believers, we should never imitate
the vile language of the unsaved.
Rather, we should desire for every
word that we say to be acceptable in
the sight of God (read Psa. 19:14). We
must keep in mind that one day we
will be held accountable for our
words, even if we say them without
thinking first (see Matt. 12:36).
Therefore, we should be certain that
we "let no corrupt communication
proceed out of [our] mouth" (Eph.
4:29).
Not only must we be an example in
our choice of words, but we must be
sure that the content of our speech is
wholesome and edifying. When we
open our mouths, do we tend to rip
apart certain individuals who come to
our mind? Is our speech full of gossip
and harmful backbiting? Is our
conversation pleasing to God, or do
we tend to repeat the latest off-color
joke to our friends in order to get a
laugh? We must consider these
questions. God's Word tells us that
when we are saved we are to "put off
... filthy communication out of [our]
mouth" (Col. 3:8).