To have a serious relationship with someone with kids is a risky business; for many reasons.

What are all the aspects and situations to consider before to accept the job?

Love for kids is great;but....

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It can be very challenging dating women with kids. You just have to prepare for the following_ They hardly have much time to meet up, sex is very limited, baby sitter problems, baby father drama, economical problems, and the list goes on and on.The kids will always be first and you last. However, If you love the cow you just have to love and accept the calves. If the kids love you, you got a great chance of winning the mother's heart.

so then you have to win the hearts of both the parent and the kid
and well the one i was in i was not able to do anything for the kid other then listen to the parent complain about how the kid was doing things

i had many ideas on how to change the childs thinking on things but it all fell on deaf ears

And really not worth pursuing unless you're really desperate and lonely.


If you see it as a job then maybe you should just get a job.
Deliver pizzas and hope some hot MILF or DILF answers the door all naked and lonely.
...It happens in the movies.


if it works out, you are now responsible for an entire family and maintaining relationships with the parent and each kid which you don't really have a natural bond with.

If it doesn't work out, you end up hurting the parent as well as the kids.

So basically, dating single parents you have to do 2x+ the work while accepting 2x+ the risk, for the same "reward" you get dating someone without kids.

Which means you really shouldn't casually date someone with kids, you need to commit to something before you even try.

If you want to try and assert yourself into a premade family, are committed to getting into and being a part of a family asap, go for it.
If you're just dating around trying to find someone, it's just not worth it.

Thirty years ago I fell in love with a beautiful lady who had a three year daughter.I had split up with my wife five years previously because she wanted a family,I didn't.How I wished that child was mine.The lady had a very high profile job,manager of a very large International airline which involved a lot of travel and after hours entertaining.I became the babysitter whilst running my own company.I felt the lady was neglecting me and her child.I issued an ultimatum,me or her job.I got shown the door.One year later the airline collapsed.30 years later I still love both ladies.I now have three beautiful children of my own with a different lady.You win some you,loose some and on the journey you find out who you are.

Children?? If u have one or two it can b a good thing but otherwise it is a NoNo. At the end ull end up taking care of them if they little, cuz ull love ur new wife. And if the children older is a good chance, I'd say great chance that teens know better then you do what they need, and ull have a drama. Run Forest. Run!!!!!