One girl I dated many, many, many years ago had the cutest laugh I'd ever heard but near the end it became the most annoying "cackle"! I couldn't stand to hear it anymore. We're still good friends to this day but every now and again when she laughs it still makes my skin crawl.

good post quite the issue to ponder especially going into a new relationship. Hopefully all his loving attentiveness will not change once he knows he actually has me, then again maybe it will. HUMMMMMM think I need to talk to him about that. Thanks do not want to end up

im going to have to AGREE with curious!!! you couldnt be more right

Thanks, Dodgers...

If you think about it, you can consider what is attracting you and then consider how it could possibly become an issue. If you can deal with the issue than you're a bit safer moving forward. That's prudent. And in this day and age, prudent is good.

Don't you think when we first fall for someone we are blinded by so many things? I sometimes believe that we tend to overlook a lot of things that "annoy" us.
When I really like someone, I introduce them to my mom. She can notice things right off, if she thinks they are hiding something...trust me, they are hiding something! My mom is a good judge of character.
I tend to think that we are blinded by love so we are not the best judges when we first get into a relationship. Its just to bad that it doesn't feel right to fall for your best friend, then that way...you know exactly how that person really is!!

unsure, thanks for sharing.

I'm not as emotionally driven when it comes to relationships. I can honestly say I've never fallen in love. I've fallen into lust quite a few times, but love is something I chose to do. In choosing, I can evaluate the person and see where we compliment each other. Where we each make the other better. Is this a relationship that can bear fruit or is it destructive in one way or another.

just some thoughts...