We all have our beliefs when it comes to sexual morality. There are valid reasons for waiting for the right person but the point still stands that they are either sexually frustrated or frigid.

on one hand we have those who like casual sex and no strings attached
on other hand we have those who want to wait until they are in a relationship for intimacy...tsk tsk


never the two shall meet
well I dunno maybe the two shall meet

but I doubt if they hang out at the same places
and even if they do meet

say friends set them up on blind date
not so sure they would get along or like each other

Well, I've discussed this in another thread but let's say that I do tend to be a bit peevish wwhen I'm not getting any and maybe it's also disrupting the rest of my life, such as my career.

Let's say just for the sake of argument that I am sexually active just now. Nothing serious but as far as sex goes it's fantastic.

Hey, I'm getting on with my life and doing all the other things that they tell you to do instead of just moping about because I've not got a steady girlfriend. Does this stop me from meeting nice girls that are looking for a man? Not really. We might even strike up a genuine friendship and discover how compatible we really are first because I'm not just desperate to get into any woman's pants and I'm not a grumpy bastard.

I noticed women that are sexually active are normally more rational, happier, more easier to work with, more attractive, look a bit younger than their age, and some experts say they live longer. The ones that are not getting any sex are normally so grumpy and b.tchy, always have headaches, get sick a lot and have very bad personalities. OBSERVATION IS A GREAT TEACHER

. . . and you know which women are having sex and which aren't how?

. . . or they are neither.

This is a good question. I just ask the ones i know when last they get some d.ck. Normally the b.chy ones would tell me they have not get any in a long time. And the happier ones would say they get it often.

Obviously. They could be getting laid.

It is probably important to point out that some people have higher sex drives than others. Well, that's bleeding obvious but anyway...

There are some people that don't even like sex very much and would prefer a nice cup of tea or something. You know the sort. Divorced women that had an old man that was a two second wonder in the sack. I'm not surprised that they go off it.

Of course you can direct your energies into other things. I've tried porn myself but it's just not the same. You might even be an ascetic and you're doing it for the same reasons that people fast or flagellate themselves. "Self-control" implies frustration. There would be nothing to be controlled if they didn't have the urge.

Yeah you are absolutely right,sex is just like a beast and it need satisfaction.

Anyways...seems that both kinds are getting yours ANYTIME....!!

Are you a sociologist or a psychologist?
Where are your statistics?
We can all say we observe this or that and if our perception is biased, we see what we want to see.

http://www.everydayhealth.com/longevity/can-promiscuity-threaten-longevity.aspx

Society puts an emphasis on sexuality - but casual sex can impact your physical and emotional health in ways that you may not suspect.

Can promiscuity threaten your longevity? The short answer is yes. Having a large number of sexual partners has been linked to poor sexual health and decreased longevity. Why? The more sexual partners you have, the greater your risk for sexually transmitted diseases (STDs) like HIV/AIDS and other life-threatening conditions like prostate cancer, cervical cancer, and oral cancer.

Promiscuity is one example of a class of high-risk behaviors, says Deirdre Lee Fitzgerald, PhD, assistant professor of psychology at Eastern Connecticut State University in Willimantic. It is comparable to, and may coincide with, behaviors such as heavy drinking, gambling, and other thrill-seeking behaviors like driving too fast.

Why do people have many sexual partners? It's exciting, Fitzgerald says, or, among their peers, it’s a kind of activity that brings them status. Another reason: It helps them avoid dealing with other challenging emotional issues.

Promiscuity’s Impact on Your Physical Health

Don't believe the myths that you can't get STDs unless you have sexual intercourse or that you can't get them from oral or **** sex. Many viruses and bacteria that cause STDs can enter your bloodstream through tiny cuts in your mouth, anus, or the outer parts of your genitals.

Here a rundown of physical risks you face from promiscuity:

STDs. The U.S. Centers for Disease Control and Prevention estimates that 19 million new STD infections occur each year. Among the most common STDs are chlamydia, gonorrhea, and syphilis, but the most common of all is the human papillomavirus (HPV). HPV can infect the mouth or the genitals, and most people do not know they are infected. HPV has been linked to cervical cancer and to oral and throat cancers.
HIV and AIDS. Being promiscuous and having STDs both increase your susceptibility to the AIDS virus. Despite better education and treatment, AIDS still killed more than 14,000 Americans in 2007.
Other health conditions. If promiscuity is combined with other risky behaviors like smoking, heavy drinking, substance abuse, not getting enough sleep, and poor diet, it can contribute to several chronic diseases including heart disease.
Physical abuse. Research shows the couples who are in long-term relationships are much less likely to suffer from domestic violence.
How Promiscuity Affects Emotional Health

One myth about promiscuity is that most men have many more sexual partners than women. The truth, studies show, is that by age 44, the average man has had about seven sexual partners and the average woman has had four. About 33 percent of men and 9 percent of women report having more than 10 sexual partners in their lifetime. Having many more partners than average is considered a sexual health risk.

And that risk extends to your emotional health as well. The impact of these high risk behaviors on one’s emotional health includes making dangerous choices that lead to more and more risk. This cycle can lead to problems with self-concept, ineffective relationships, and even depression, notes Fitzgerald.

With depression, the door swings both ways: Promiscuity may actually be a symptom of depression. And obviously, having multiple sexual partners makes it difficult to sustain a healthy relationship. Studies show that people in long-term, healthy relationships enjoy better health and greater longevity.

Despite the emphasis that society puts on sexuality, the best emotional, physical, and sexual health can be found in long-term relationships. If you find yourself jumping from relationship to relationship, you should consider the price you could be paying in both sexual health and longevity.



Personally we are only responsible for ourselves and noone else. I am not interested in anyone's sex life. I would not ask them and if you feel you 'need' sex for peace, that is your belief and choice.
But get your facts correct.

Really!! do we have to have sex?..
I mean my god!! we just had sex for months ago!!!.. I'm not a" machine "you know!

But don't worry because you can't catch it from a toilet seat.

Yeah, promiscuity for it's own sake, as a thrill seeking behaviour is probably symptomatic of some mental illness.

Here's the thing about it. Statistics show that eight out of ten women are crap shags. Those are the ones you don't see again. If it's casual sex you aren't going to work at it together, as you might if you were in a relationship. So, the only reason to keep sleeping around with other people when you find a good one is to avoid becoming emotionally involved if you don't just have a so-called "sex addiction".

I think that's right that having loads of crap shags with different people could screw you up in the head a bit. It's hard to feel depressed when you just had a really good time with somebody though. I don't care how pretty she is if the chemistry isn't really there on some level and if I'm not feeling like I can't wait to see her again then I just don't. I could have dozens of women's numbers here with ticks or crosses against them. But why wouldn't I just delete the fails and just call the ones that I liked?

It's not a perfect system but it does cut down on the "multiples" a bit. Also minimises the psychological trama that crap sex brings with it.

orgasm induced coma.... lol

Well this is a nice fairy tale..
Is it because we are supposed to use up all the energy so that we have no strength left to have angst??