How do you feel about viewing other peoples profiles ? I know the profiles are there to be viewed but sometimes I feel as if I'm prying into peoples private information.Sometimes I feel like I'm perving, (sometimes I am).Sometimes I feel like apologising because I have accidently pressed the wrong button.What are your thoughts ?

taking a risk is one thing my risk is that any girl who views me is hot and beautiful. sometimes it's just for sex other times it's just a match of true love or just love or just companionship. sure i get even a view from a girl in sudan which is in the middle east i don't judge on that she's hot like most of them. It's a matter of knocking on their door or having someone knock on their door and them answering in a way i've got two matches already

Nothing ventured,nothing gained Best of luck with your search.

frankie that IS the purpose of creating profiles and being on a site like this

I know that Eric but I still feel a little uncomfortable about it.Just wondered if others felt the same.By the time I clock up 7000 hopefully I will have adjusted

well i see enough snow on the roof that i don't think this reference will be missed.

did you ever feel that way reading the personals in the classified?

Good analogy,you set my mind at ease. However despite all the references we get here about the reals and the fakes,this feels more personal and real to me.The personals in the papers are very impersonal We are running a live show here.

yes that last is true

That is why I keep a bucket of popcorn with me.

I think as mature people we are taught to be respectful and not pry into people's private world as just being polite so yes sometimes it does seem a bit uncomfortable. Sometimes even embarrassing.

Especially when some seem to forget this is a world wide stage that anyone can see. Once you have been on line a while it is easy to get lulled into thinking this is your own personal playground of friends but I still check myself and keep some things personal for very good reasons. BECAUSE once it is "out there" it is there FOREVER. And there are some lulus for sure.

But after a while you can only be who you are and people will accept or reject you and vice versa so it is what it is. Someone wants to get huffy because you accidently or out of curiosity look at their profile or threads well then too bad. Don't play on line.

Profiles are meant to be looked at on a site like this. People get their panties in a bunch, that's their problem.

Without viewing one's profile how will d relationship begin

Like it's generally a waste of time meant to preclude people from talking to each other.

At best profiles are a 30 second commercial.

Some are beer commercials, others are unicef commercials.
But they all represent so little of the actual person and what they do it means believing they have any value other than as immediate emotional manipulation to build a positive association is asinine at best.


I think these potential insecurities and lack of esteem are going to be a major handicap to you.

Although, you don't really mention if these feelings are simply momentary distractions and random thoughts, or if they are something you are preoccupied with, and keep you from clicking on other profiles for fear of how you will be judged or to avoid feeling these things.


On some sites it's free.
But on this site you can purchase the ability to view profiles in complete anonymity, where people can't tell if you've viewed them or not.

Would that change your reaction?
Knowing you can watch the show without having to participate unless you wanted to?

I feel cheated if she doesn't have scantily clad boobie photos.

you are not spying or prying
that's the governments job and they do it very very well

damn skippy

I am glad you are set at ease over looking at profiles. Heck if you get to be a forum user you will find yourself looking at profiles.

I constantly am reading profiles..

well if you could just remember what to click to get to the forum rains

smart azzz