It's a question guys often ask me. It's a hard one to answer. I don't like to say to them, "By not being an arsehole."

I know that there's a lot more too it than that. It does also help to have all your own teeth and not still be an outpatient at the local mental hospital.

I don't even know what you're complaining about. You could meet loads of nymphos in a loony bin. You must just be crap at chatting up women.

That's the way that these conversations usually tend to go.

Topic: How do you get women?

i am just myself
but i am not driven by my pants

to each there own

love me or hate me <shrug>

and i do like your answer
"By not being an arsehole."

I don't like to say to them, "By not being an arsehole"

The dumb a@@ questions.

No matter what I have put on my profile, or not put on many sites over the years, I get this, " What are you doing here? " & " Tell me what you are looking for "... within the first 3 messages.


I now say, " Someone who is not illiterate "

I would say keep trying and if what you are doing isn't working try something else

i have just been reply with hunting scammers : )

very rare from me to hear back from them again

Humor and intelligence? Oh wait, I'm screwed...

I think this is what happens.
Some guys think they know what women like, want, need etc.. And they run with that.
* And then wonder what is wrong with women*

Or they are hoping to be feed information, so they can agree with us.
* Temporarily anyway *

Either way.. I think most women feel they end up doing most of the conversationsal work/ or texting.

3 times this week, I sent messages saying " Please initiate conversation & talk about yourself "
It took two of them 2 days to respond.

That would be because women (also) use any personal information or conversation to agree with or use our emotions (also).
It works both ways.

i usually just get them drunk, make them laugh, and make sure they leave in the morning... works for me anyway...

I hope they get breakfast or at least a coffee before they see the door.

How To Get A Woman - Step 1:

Guys that ask me questions like that wouldn't know what to do with a woman if they had one. I don't think that they're looking for advice. I think that it's a vicarious thing.

It depends what type of women you have?
Find out her likes and dislikes for a start.
If she says I don't know then experiment. Think creative. I not talking about 50 shades of grey.
Think outside the box.

Uh, use this instead?

So you get lots & lots of messages saying

Hru?
Why r u hear?
What r u looking for ?

Those conversations?

To be honest I don't do anything. I just be myself and if that's not good enough oh well. Why put on a act, sooner or later you have to show someone the real you.

just be yourself bro, you will do better being yourself than pretending to be someone else just to please a girl