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Topic: why does it seem like no honest person is here
rakybabe's photo
Wed 09/30/15 03:21 AM
I don't know of others but so far,what I have experience here on this platform is that,a lot of ppl r not really who the claim to be here.they lie abt a lot of things n even put fake pic online...plz why is so?...why all the lies n deception?

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Wed 09/30/15 03:23 AM

I don't know of others but so far,what I have experience here on this platform is that,a lot of ppl r not really who the claim to be here.they lie abt a lot of things n even put fake pic online...plz why is so?...why all the lies n deception?



Yeah yeah been there like so 10 years ago...

Annierooroo's photo
Wed 09/30/15 03:27 AM
Hi
you learn who is real and who is a fake.
Have fun

metalwing's photo
Wed 09/30/15 03:28 AM
Fakers exist everywhere and on all dating websites. Join the forums and have some fun.

Ladywind7's photo
Wed 09/30/15 03:31 AM
Hmmm, fakers, users, people who are messed up are everywhere. Guard your heart and wait for the very best and true.
Good luck

rakybabe's photo
Wed 09/30/15 03:36 AM
whoooaaa,but its really bad...I know there will fakers but I jux didn't know 80% would be fakers...sucks

metalwing's photo
Wed 09/30/15 03:40 AM

whoooaaa,but its really bad...I know there will fakers but I jux didn't know 80% would be fakers...sucks


Only 20% of the air you breathe is oxygen. Enjoy that.

Ladywind7's photo
Wed 09/30/15 03:49 AM
Sweetheart, time shows the fools, time shows the true. Be patient. flowerforyou

jackbloodismine's photo
Wed 09/30/15 04:29 AM
am not fake
u got skype

Dodo_David's photo
Wed 09/30/15 04:44 AM

I don't know of others but so far,what I have experience here on this platform is that,a lot of ppl r not really who the claim to be here.they lie abt a lot of things n even put fake pic online...plz why is so?...why all the lies n deception?


Just remember that the ones to avoid want you to Skype with them immediately upon finding you on this site. laugh

TawtStrat's photo
Wed 09/30/15 05:06 AM
Because it's easy to lie to someone while they're still just on the internet. I've got to disagree with the give it time advice. You're never going to find out who they really are online and at best you might catch them out in an obvious lie.

Example: Her profile says that she's been single for three years and she also tells me that in an email when I ask her about it. We chat online for maybe a couple of months and I start to get sucked in and emotionally involved with her. Then we eventually meet but she's not really thirty seven. She's forty two. Also, she's been in an on and off relationship with some guy for the last five years and she still hangs about with him all the time, even when their sex life is on hold and she goes on the internet looking for it from somebody else.

But I already like her and even though I'm not too happy with this deal with her hanging about with her ex I go along with it because she says that they are just friends. Also, I accept the fact that she lied about her age. Shrug my shoulders and say that all women do that, even though if I had known that she had lied about one thing and then maybe something else and then yet another thing I would be starting to think that I've got a compulsive liar here, instead of finding that all out later, as I would with someone that lured me in with a false appearance on the internet and then maybe got me to fall for her by sleeping with me when we met, so that I ended up in a relationship with someone that I would probably have run a mile from if I had just met her without listening to her lying to me on the internet for a couple of months.


sybariticguy's photo
Wed 09/30/15 05:44 AM
welcome to americas new culture full of deception and self aggrandizement where form has replaced substance and saying anything is now considered ok regardless of honesty or personal integrity...

Ladywind7's photo
Wed 09/30/15 06:22 AM

welcome to americas new culture full of deception and self aggrandizement where form has replaced substance and saying anything is now considered ok regardless of honesty or personal integrity...


So true. It is a joke. Just be here to have fun and amusement and nothing expected...Cant go wrong :smile:

rakybabe's photo
Wed 09/30/15 06:28 AM
hmmmmmmm I think I'll jux run away from this site...I really can't stand lies n deception... ppl like me r not meant to be here... its was nice n fun knowing or chatting with some of u Here...
thank u all for ur views n advice.. I'll keep my hopes down on finding a soul mate online.

Ladywind7's photo
Wed 09/30/15 06:53 AM

hmmmmmmm I think I'll jux run away from this site...I really can't stand lies n deception... ppl like me r not meant to be here... its was nice n fun knowing or chatting with some of u Here...
thank u all for ur views n advice.. I'll keep my hopes down on finding a soul mate online.


yes, I understand. fake is common bye love flowerforyou

no photo
Wed 09/30/15 06:54 AM
The real world consist of good and bad people. You just have to verify before you trust. I normally request a telephone conservation or a video chat on Skype with a few selected individuals i meet here. These tools allow me to screen out the bad people. You can always block the person from your phone or Skype if you are not interested. Skype helps me to see a live and current picture of the person. Lots of pictures here are fake. The technology is available just use it

TawtStrat's photo
Wed 09/30/15 08:52 AM
I just don't even bother anymore if they don't live close enough to make a date after exchanging just enough emails to see if we're looking for the same kind of thing and might be interested in each other. The LDR crowd can do what they like but I'm not wasting my time and getting jerked about by people anymore that just want to email and won't make a date.

"Oh, I need to feel comfortable and trust you first." Piss off, time waster. If you won't pick up the phone or just meet me no amount of emailing from me is ever going to convince you that I'm not a nutter and if that's how you think that you can discover if I am then it's you that's buttoned up the back.

misstina2's photo
Wed 09/30/15 10:39 AM
flowerforyou you can think you know someone for years and they still lieflowerforyou trust your instincts but it is always a riskflowerforyou

tumnahoty's photo
Wed 09/30/15 10:43 AM
yeah you are right..

tumnahoty's photo
Wed 09/30/15 10:47 AM
misstina you right and you have good thoughts..
i like it very much..
i am new here and i am not fake..

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