Nice.....
Words from a lesbian herself

if u are straight looking for a lesbian u r advertising incorrectly. you are bisexual curious. be easier to meet another bi sexual woman for a one in one fling.

got a good point there

This advice would in some ways get the vote. Going to the source and being honest about who you are and what you want.

HOWEVER; Since I rarely recommend finding any lover, Hetero or GLBT. in a pub for the obvious reasons being inebriated would probably not add to the experience.

And AGAIN certainly add to the risk and actually be a crime in your home of record. It is a whole different thing in an affluent neighborhood of the better areas of your trendy city to be philosophical and curious and a whole different universe where some of the "underground" sex clubs are. Especially if it is an illegal club which many are, when they are counter culture, you also risk incarceration. Not an experience I would risk anywhere but least of which in your country where starvation, gang rape, and torture are a real risk.

I have the sad experience of years of dealing with victims of hate crimes and the particularly vicious nature of them against the GLBT community world wide is hard for someone who has the luxury of enough affluence to be curious on line to comprehend. Sounds pretty harmless but I assure you it is not.

If you doubt I know what I speak of do some online research from some of the victims assistance programs from with in the GLBT community. I guarantee you can not imagine the brutality that some have endured and survive with life long injuries.

SOME actually at the hands of enraged family members who became aware of the private affairs of the women in their families. I saw a couple that were medevac'd to Atlanta that were left for dead that had so many injuries that it would take three pages to list them. A BIG price to pay just to be "curious".

Maybe it doesn't matter to you but the same kind of violence could be directed at your family ; even your children if you have any now or in the future if this "curiosity" came to light.

And since you would be putting those who are trying to survive in such a hostile environment at risk you could be mistaken for a police "spy" and killed for "snooping around" in a closed community.

One thing I do know about the GLBT community is they know their own and you will be spotted as a "tourist" the minute you get close weather your country or even in mine which is only liberal in certain areas. GLBT's are injured and killed in the USA every day. And it is a serious crime here with hate crime enhancements but it still happens.

very interesting to read

visit Vegas. ....

Of all the straight women I know who have 'experimented' they have done so in Vegas..


the other thing is just be honest and ask! you never truly know someone elses answer until you ask. Sometimes thw answer may surprise you

Vegas huh?

Sin City !!!

hehe

yeah so I've heard

definitely not speaking from experience

At the end of the day, if you're turned on by the thought of sexing an actual lesbian and find lesbians atractive (as opposed to just women) it could just be a perversion and they may see it like that perhaps.

Speaking for myself, I find lesbians a bit sexually repulsive and I really don't want to offend anyone by saying that. I'm sure that they feel the same way about me. I'm not talking about bi girls. As a straight guy I might see a lesbian as a challenge vut the sex would be freaky and maybe not just in a good way.

You sound hot to trot and into this idea but maybe just bear in mind that the fantasy may seem great but the reality could ve a less pleasant experience than you imagined and it's not really different from going with a guy and then changing your mind once he's started trying to have sex with you.

While there are some that might not be opposed to it, I would think many (whether gay, bi, straight) would feel being used as an experiment to be demeaning or offensive. Something to think about