I don’t know exactly the right words to say it , I don't have all of the answers. Sometimes, it seems that I have none of them. I suppose like most men on the planet, love and hate , but feeling lonely or hurt. In life, love is born in the course of a moment, an hour, a day. Some are dreams, some visions. Often, we are unable to distinguish between them. To some, they are the same; however, not all dreams about our love come true . Much energy is lost in fanciful love dreams that never bear fruit. But our feel is messages from the great Spirit, each for a different purpose in life. do you think we can find real love in this hard life ...

Well...

As u have shown in ur text, finding love isn't an easy task, yet, it definitely is possible. Many lucky people have found it. Some people say, love can't be found, it finds u. I believe this is correct and also incorrect. It can find u, but if u aren't looking, it shall never arrive. But if and when it does, u will know it and it'll be wonderful.

Love is the most sublime feeling that the soul may be living ... beyond reason, feeds you and destroy you a little every day ... accept, a desire in our lives, and when we lose our soul ... we lose little by little ... because later to search again ... is the only disease that has no treatment really as long as we want in your life

If it gives u misery
It was never love to begin with

...must be an obsession

so people are in to masochistic and toxic relations
to each there own

smart man : ) knowing that you dont have all the answers shows intel
the people that say they have all the answers are the ones that really know nothing at all, they jsut think they do : )

keep your head up and keep trying , only time will truly tell

best wishes on your hunt

No.
You don't "find" it.
It develops over time with someone.

Kind of like a baby that comes to recognize its mother and always smiles when she picks them up.
You don't find a mother (although legally the court can make someone your mother through like the adoption process but it's only technically in name).

It develops with consistent behavior and bonding, emotional association.

You can develop real love with anyone.
You both just have to be motivated to stick around each other long enough and get over your flight response over their and your own imperfections and limitations.

Dunno about real love...if you find love...then...game over my friend..:p