If you think youre confused now, wait till the syphilis she gives you makes it to your brain. Kick her to the curb before she gives you something a shot cant get rid of....or, enjoy the herp...your call.

Well, you said that she was your ex the other day and you obviously went back to her. There's not enough information here to give you advice though.

You say that you caught her cheating several times. Really? Actually caught her in the act did you? What evidence of her cheating do you have? Been going through her phone or email? Found a used condom somewhere? Saw her give a guy a lap dance in the strip club where she does that for a living?

We just don't know if she's a cheat or if you're just paranoid. She's a stripper. She slept with you on the first date. Because you're hot supposedly. You don't trust her is the bottom line.

he met a hot little stripper who's business is to entertain men. now he wants his hot horny little stripper to be his princess. he doesn't know to leave her or not cause its best sex he has ever had. pretty sure that's how it goes.

How about start banging her properly and adequately or finding your right match? Maybe your libido level is weaker than her's and you both are not sexually compatible

It's easy to hand out advice to a guy questioning his relationship with a GF. But let's say it's a guy that found out his wife has been cheating on him and they have two little kids? Let's say the wife is dealing with a mid-life crisis, whatever that is, but does he try to work through it with her for the sake of the kids and their 15 year marriage. Or does he just walk away? And what I mean by cheating, is numerous cell phone calls to a landline, you reverse phone number search and find the house, drive by and find your wife's car in front of it, walk up to the door and find them in each others arms.

I don't forgive cheating under ANY circumstances. If the marriage gets so bad that he/she wants to start sleeping with other people, go get a divorce. As for having kids, that's an excuse; people get divorced with kids all the time and no one dies from it. No one is irreparably scarred from it. You get over things. Kids get over things. My parents got divorced when I was 10 years old and no one died, and no one ended up in therapy crying their eyes out because "their life was ruined." My life was just fine and I went on and made something out of myself.

The tragedy is when you stay in a crappy marriage "for the children" or 'because you own your home" or some other godawful (lame) excuse and then the kids grow up thinking abuse and disrespect in a marriage is normal and they go on to have abusive, disrespectful marriages/relationships themselves. There's no such thing as an "unhappy marriage" if you can't fix it, end it, but don't around lying and cheating and being a douche/douchette "because of the children." That's tacky and rude.

Based on your own words, in your other thread... your girlfriend is a stripper/prostitute.

Strippers get naked for men. Note, plural, men. That's a stripper's job.

Prostitutes have sex with men, plural, men. That's a prostitute's job.

You knew what she is, before you decided to latch onto it. Either accept her for who/what she is. Or, leave her the Hell alone.


Omg! "My hooker girlfriend is cheating on me."

That's classic!

A prime example of why women get confuse. It's pretty obvious what you should do but instead you need to seek advice?

Two words that come to mind.
Attention seeker

Move on - she is not the droid you are looking for.

Leave her coz if she cares about your relationship she will not cheat on you. And besides if she do really loves you there will be no other man but there is so meaning she don't love you.

Who cares?! I can't believe how many actually gave serious responses to this...

I know now, once a cheater always a cheater. As far as divorce on kids, my parents divorced young and I've been divorced twice so far. My young adult kids have never been in a serious relationship with anybody, yet. They have seen the toll that marriage and divorce has taken on me, and I don't think they want to follow in their dads footsteps.

Exactly!

well unless you want a life of her cheating on you
move on
i can tell it aggravates you and that you are not happy
so i think you have an answer all ready
but all i can do is give advice
only you can tell what you want
but to me a cheater is a deal breaker

so uhm , when you post a Que that is bothering you or is heavy in your thoughts , is that the response you would like ?

<shrug>

shut up Dat
no mingle jail for you

love and respect ur self