Gheeze.... People get over it.

Some of us have a life and we have people in our lives. Friends, family, co-workers, sometimes people who just pass through shots when you are out in the world.

Sometimes we post shots to show you our interests rather than waste times with reams of text.

Or that we are on this big blue marble a little longer than Mingleland and the temporary interest in Dating sites. Not all of us are wet behind the years 18 yr olds and some of us have a life progression.

Granted I would not advertise and Ex but how is showing the kind of people you choose; especially if they were normal and you are widowed some kind of neurosis. Personally I prefer someone who can have normal civil relationships; yes even with Ex's. Are people really so dumb to think if you are widowed you are looking for a carbon copy?

And again get over it; your kids are photographed all the time in the real world and yes as parents you have a responsibility to protect our children but I dang sure am not going to pretend that my kids don't exist in my life and the world because the creepazoids have computer access. I am between my kids and anyone until I know they are safe. But if you don't want to deal with my kid in a picture it is pretty clear you are too selfish to deal with them being in our life so I really don't care if you don't like seeing me with my kid occasionally.

And personally I really don't want someone who is so isolated or vain that the only pictures of them are them as the center of the universe. I don't carry a camera around for the sole purpose of posting profile pictures. If you see a picture of me it is commemorating a special event and most likely taken by someone else. I am not going to see "audition shots" as a high priority for my time. Sure I have done a few but people don't stay static and if someone wants up to the minute photos well then go to a site that offers live feed.

True you can often crop pictures to exclude people in your photos but if they are significant people in your life Why? To me it seems more weird to have lopsided pictures.