i have a cat.....she's only about 8 months old and i love her to death....her name is Critter...cause that's what she is...lol, a little furry critter that runs around my house...i'll put a pic of her on my profile for you guys

And you don't have to be an ass to have confidence.
You have to believe in yourself, stand by your principles and it helps if you like your life also.
Look at me. I'm old, overweight, mostly bald, top dentures, live in a bus, got a couple health issues and looking older by the minute.
What I do have is high self esteem. I believe I am worthy and don't have to put on an act or pretend to be any one other than myself.
You gotta' do that also or you're going to keep crying that nobody loves me. Faulting and judging others shows you lack self worth. Look deep inside and dredge up what you do have to offer and make those qualities shine. That's what will attract your woman.
Now, the next time I see you guys posting, I want to see those things I just wrote about .
No more, poor nice me! Got it?

Ok so just out of curiosity.....I have heard SOOOOO many of the single men get on and complain about women not wanting nice men! So this is what I want to know....Since all of you guys are claiming that because you are nice you are single right? Is that the only thing you all have? So every man on this site who has claimed that is only single because he's nice?????? No other faults....no other reasons?....Just because you are nice? Hmmmmmmm......

Well look around ....look at all the SINGLE women here! I gaurantee that if I wanted to go out and flirt, date, or fukc an asshole I could and so could 90% of the women on this site! But we don't want to thus we are single also .....So all I can figure is what's good for the goose is good for the gander.

All of the women here that are single are single because we are to nice and men only date biotches who treat them bad....

no.DOGS RULE !actually i have neither but i have a yard ful of squirrels,,SQUIRRELS RULE..LOL

I'm single cause I choose to be single lol.
I completely disagree that guys only want uh, "biotches" LOL that is a pile of garbage. I hate "mean chicks" and I tell them that I do. Not too many guys want to come home to some screaming woman who has a bad attitude about everything.

Sheesh.

I agree with Fresh mountain Air...well said girl!

Sunbuffgirl,
See what I mean?
You give 'em compliments and all they want to do is whine.
If a hot lil' Mama like you gave me those type of vibes, I'd be on you like white on rice!
Too bad you so young and far away!!!

lol squirrels do kinda rule if I think about it.

Exactly!!! That is the same as saying that women only want assholes.....it is not the truth!!!!

Nice guys win because they keep their INTEGRITY.
Hold their heads high & never worry.

i got into a forum the other day and the majority of the women said they wanted bad boys when asked to define bad boys they couldnt ..not speaking for anyone else the majority also said they wanted tall men well being 5'6 i dont meet that criteria either but i am anice guy now is that being nice when you turn down someone who is short..i have no problem with taller women

well...actually...i wasn't saying i'm single cause i'm nice.....cause i'm not single...i come here to try and make friends....i'm just saying from my experience nice guys do get the short end of the stick a lot....and look at my profile, my kitten is on there now....

Well, I know it isn't true that ALLLLLLLLLL women want assholes but just from personal expierience in talking with alot of women, I have to say that the majority of the women I have talked to want the asshole guys. So I am just going by what I know in my life.

In any case, it really just doesn't matter anyway lol. We all want what we can't seem to find and until we find that, we will all have to deal with shallow and odd people.

aww what a cute kitty josh!

my ex had an abyssinian cat and we adopted a stray after awhile we had 18 cats damn those things breed like mice i dont have any problems with any animals ..i was just giving yall some sh*t..j/k but i do have a lot of squirrels

Well said FreshMountainAir. I think a lot of guys (not all) that complain about not being able to find a date and claim to be nice have other issues going on than just being too nice. In my experience these "nice" guys are often clingy, needy and looking for a relationship to validate them. It's not unlike many women I know. Being nice isn't a bad thing. You can still be nice and have confidence, ambition and know what you want and how to get it.

Thank you .....well said Saturn. You can't

Thank you .....well said Saturn.

clingy and needy.. be for real to be quite honest im happy being single a whole lot less drama and i dont need valdation true iam a nice guy but can turn the asshole side on in a blink and exactly ..valdation ..validation of what