If the guy had not said " I love you" prior to the love making session I would not ask. If "I love you's" have been exchanged in the past then it probably would be a fair question. Although he probably should of said it without being asked.

Hey everyone,
Jeff here.The Guy who posed the poll question.The woman I was seeing did this to me after sex.I had been seeing her for about 5 months.I NEVER gave her any signs to the Fact that I loved her.we were having a GREAT relationship till this happened.So,Question is still whether it is a good time or Not??
Thanks

Goldenboy, how many men and women, did you have to 'poll' to get these responses?



To answer the question posed...AFTER sex? Who in their right mind would ask AFTER sex?

hhhhhhhhhhmmm..methinks people are confusing the sense of intimacy with sex....two very different things, unless there is already love.

lol

I have never and would NEVER ask somebody if they loved me.......what a terrible position to put someone in.....!!!!

Well sometimes it takes awhile for women to wise up! lol I can't believe it takes someone pulling booty calls for, how long, five months? to catch on but I guess she got her answer what it was all about with you. Somehow I don't have much sympathy for any woman that stupid. You sure you are not just looking for a medal or a chest to pin it on? I sure wouldn't brag about it on line. Her "friends" are likely to make you the poster boy for the local Toad Prince Association and you won't be getting any for a long time.

Big difference between inLove and Lovein....LOL