Why do guys that live out off New Zealand
Seem to have the same explanation
By saying he will relocate
When he knows dam well that there's no chance of him doin it

well i have never said that to any woman,and to you i guess iam from over seas,,the good ol USA ,welcome and enjoy,.

Either because:
1. That's part of how they got you to talk to them and pay attention to them; telling you what you want to hear.

or

2. They meant it at the time they said it, but changed their mind for some reason.
Reasons include:
- They met someone else.
- The reason why they pursued someone long distant was because they ultimately wanted someone long distance, i.e. would always be at a safe distance physically and emotionally except during online fantasy play in a controlled environment.
- They just lost attraction.

How do you f*n expect someone to move to NZ based on what - two seeks of chatting? 3 skype dates? 5 Minutes of facetime?
The man was dreaming till reality hit him in the Junk i guess.

Question is why when common sense tells you that a man can not afford to abandon a job would you believe he would in the first place?

Rule one in online dating; if it doesn't make sense it is probably a lie.