I have 3 adult children my youngest has got herself in a rut relationship the guy just doesn't have a clue need to work,Iam moving tough love deal she needs to realize a job is best for her too.Am I being fare guys lazy sleeps til 3-4pm each day?

Adult children need to wake up and realize they now need to act/live like adults. Time to be responsable! My 4 are all adults now also, both daughters are married, one is working full time while attending college full time, the other has a very successful full time job. My boys, 18 yr. old twins are another story. One is working full time and talks about attending college, the other is not motivated in anyway. Nobody is sure how to light that kids fire yet. Tough love is what some of these young adults need to grow up.

been there done that...just don't rag on the guy too much and try getting along and getting to know them...even though you don't want to...it worked for me a couple of yrs ago. the more you show your dislike the more your daughter will be drawn or feel pushed to him...let it fizzle out on it's own...good luck, brenda

Im a daddys girl so I can tell you want to help out,but she is a grownup and a woman which means anything you tell her will go in one ear and out the other. Unfortunately shes going to have to figure it out on her own