If this happens, said male will receive an erection.

Just you describing you doing that's enough for me. Congrats Pancho.

...or a nervous expression of a guilty conscious?

Don't change a thing Luv.

Hi huney... Sexy man

bite the bottom lip lol my lady was smiling then bite bottom lip. I got naked hopped on bed she said what you doing I said you bite ur bottom lip. she laughed said how did you know :) that is the horniest sign a woman has!

I personally would not go to a bar alone. Especially if I was not hoping someone would want to flirt with me AND I would not want to flirt back.

But if you are there and trying to check out the lay of the land, so to speak, I don't see any problem with smiling at someone that seems harmless. I think I would watch them covertly, a little, to see how they behave but just generally being politely friendly will be noticed by others including the bar staff that can/will be and allies if you are nice and make their environment upbeat so their tips are positively impacted.

Actually tipping long term servers and bartenders while you are developing your list of social places is a smart idea because if they like you they can often give you the heads up about what is going on locally and who is "fun" in a good way. And help run interference if someone is being a jerk or you would like and escort to your car.

the real Q is. what type of guy do you expect to find at a bar? AND what type of girl does the GUYS expect to find at a bar? but all so there are different types of bars that enters in to all so. i dont go to bars. EXCEPT Applebees. iam 66 and i have meet 3 younger girls that work at Applebees. one is very close to me. but we are just friends i really like it that way. i see no hard in telling a guy to get lost.

This usually backfires on me. It's always the guys that I just have a casual eye contact with and smile, only to be friendly and no interest at all. Those are the ones that show interest with me. Mostly I made eye contact by accident. Other guys, I try to see if there is interest, make eye contact, several times and smile. I am always alone, so I could not be more approachable, and yet the message does not get across. I am not talking about being in a bar.

cat may i suggest for the ones you are actually interested in you start using a larger clue by 4

What other clue can I give someone other than making eye contact and smiling? Sometimes, if those guys happen to walk past me, I say to them Hi, how are you?

actually cat i was thinking a thump to the back of the head with a big stick and then maybe the phrase "i'm interested"

OK. That is very obvious! Of course I always look for a wedding ring. That is off limits. I am really not a forward person, so it's not that easy for me. I live in a small town but a lot of tourists drive through here, so I guess I need to be a little more aggressive. Most of the men who live in this area are in a relationship. So, again, A reason why I am on a dating site.

well here at least cat you have a lot of safety net so might i suggest clicking a few keys and pressing send? what's the worst that could happen? he turns into mr hyde and you block him

I understand that eric, I do look at profiles on here and I have initiated a message, but not too much lately. I do have some things that are important to me. I am not ready to give up. Thanks.

no problem just some out side of the box thoughts

hey ladies im looking for some fun tonight ;)