Why are these women on a dating site if they aren't interested in talking to any guys? Maybe you need to work on you approach?

Because some are here just for the forums. Plus just because they don't talk to some doesn't mean they aren't talking to someone else

I always go with that time tested method of just whipping it out on her forehead. If she laughs and isn't appalled, then she is go for convo.

i want someone real....

Personally getting them to talk is not the hard part... It's getting them to stop talking now that's the trick lol just kidding

if there was one really caught my interest. instead of her opening her email and seeing 50 different men's email she see 50 emails from ME.

I've had no problem talking to women on this site. I've made friends, male and female, and had lots of fun.

Sounds like your approach is all wrong. Instead of "hitting on" women at random, try just making friends.

Well said, thanks for the advice.

Most people will not reply, however every once in awhile someone will respond even if they are not interested. It all boils down to the kind of person they are, and the kind of person you are

you have plenty of competition
on from other men. you got to think of something different to catch her attention.

"Its hard getting a woman to talk"



You should be grateful for that.

Some of them NEVER shut up.

How true you two are

If she stopped talking what would you think?
Flipping thank goodness or maybe what's wrong with her she stopped talking?

I can't work you guys out
Talk or not to talk?

Sure we get a lot of mail from scammers, and truthfully an email needs to have more than Hi you are so beautiful. Some of us need a bit more than that to catch our eye.

It helps if you have a well written profile and actually talk about something in our profiles. Some of us have actually taken the time to write one.

Who said romance was dead?

I need a real seriously relationship

I seriously don't know what your problem is, I have no problem in meeting women on here. Women that live close and are around my own age yea that is really hard. Young, totally hot, open minded, fun girls who would really love a guy that is old enough to be her father, no problem. I am a BABE magnet. Wait those girls are actually guys from Ghana and Nigeria. NOOOOOOO!!!!!!!!

I dunno man is it ego or gullible or stupidity...

if you are a middle aged man of modest to middle income level
you got some gray going on in your hair
maybe your mustache is mostly gray and so are your whiskers
you don't go to the gym or jog
you aren't obese but ya got a bit of pudge on ya
ya go to work and spend most nights in front of tv or laptop

you are what I would refer to as a 'typical'middle aged guy
ya come on a dating site and then get offended

when ya find out that hot, young thing with the bodacious ta-tas hanging out in her picture is not who she says she is

or ya get mad when all the young hotties do not answer your messages

9 out of 10 nymphos agree.....lust is all you need.

no one is denying that fact. scammers here n there. so because of this few we should live all our this lives without someone who is ready to try n t
see that not all men or women are scammers