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Topic: sick of bein single
Spur277's photo
Sat 10/13/07 09:08 PM
If I was about 100 years younger, I'd take you out on a date.
Get a grip, Baby Girl. Those babies of yours need a healthy Mamma right now. In time, when you least expect it, a real good boy will come along and grab you up.

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Sat 10/13/07 09:14 PM
Hey Mary Girl,
You are neither Ugly or Fat so tell those people to jump in the lake.
Give yourself a little time to get your feet under you and I bet you will be an awesome Mom. The first year is the hardest but it goes faster than you know.
Have you checked out Parent's WIthout Partners. If you do ya just might make some peer friends close to you to make life seem a little easier. I made great friends that way that eventually introduced me to my late husband.
You might also check out a church in your area. Some are really awesome. Ours has a daycare program, builds houses for Habitat, has camping trips and all kinds of special interest groups. Many are single parents in the church communities. No judgements just acceptance and fellowship. I find sometimes the bigger the church the more programs they have but sometimes the smaller ones are more homey.
I would highly recommend you read some stuff by T.D. Jakes. I think it would give you a lot of hope and a clear perspective of what a Good Guy is really all about. Then some of the toads you naturally run into in life won't get you down....HUGS Grandma Joy

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Sat 10/13/07 09:31 PM
dont know how anyone can call you fat when you got such a pretty face like that

beccalee1980's photo
Sat 10/13/07 09:33 PM
mary, hun i know how u feel..it sucks..whoever told u that u were fat and ugly is just flat out stupid and wrong. don't listen to em! just keep your head up hun! best of luck. flowerforyou
Becca

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Sun 10/14/07 12:14 AM
Hang in there Mary :-) Those that have judged you on your outward appearance are suffering from their own short comings and taking it out on you..!!! If they judge you from appearance only...then they're not the type of people (and I use that term loosely for them) that you want to be with anyway.

Tomorrow is a new day and you will meet new, kind people ;-)

BK

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