If you surround your self with those kinds of feelings maybe she aint the right one for you. But I have no heart unless I turn it on. So I can't give good advice here. Best of luck too you

Okay, I'm kind of lost here.

However, here are my 2 cents worth...

If you and she have agreed to marry, there must be something there. Trust is earned. Are you concerned that there are other men better than you? If Jenn agreed to marry you, I'm pretty sure that she does not think so.

I have a jealous nature. It is everything for me to overcome it when I am in a relationship. However, if I ever want to be in a healthy adult relationship, I have to.

Hang in there!

Hugs, M

confidence is one of the most attractive things a man can possess. <not cocky>
give her room to breathe, to be herself, give her space, give her trust
how can she see what a wonderful guy you are if you are hoovering over her?

If you dont fix yourself soon you will lose the girl......

There is so much to be said for a confident man who can let his lady be the "social butterfly" that most women are...Just bite your tounge and don't be jealous until she gives you cause to worry..In most cases ppl don't just cheat...there are usually reasons for it and all relationships take 2 ppl to make it work or 2 ppl to flush it...jmo

From my experiences, I have never suffered from facing a fear. See, people turn 3ft monsters into 24ft monsters due to over analyzing and fears. Accept things and don't think too hard. It is human to want to figure things out, but it is also human to just live life and accept things the way they are. If nature was created by your own thoughts, you would not have anything to marvel at. Instead you would be over critical. I suggest if you are fragile, then keep to yourself until you want it bad enough to make things happen by all means. Otherwise just sit back and enjoy life.

just my opinion but it sounds to me like you need to get off of this site. you seem far too insecure for it. like i said, this is just my opinion.

jennsbaby... insecurities come from fear and fear has nothing to do with love.
you must first love yourself, before you can ever honestly love
another person.
only when you know for yourself how worthy and wonderful you are, will fear like that start to mean nothing.
there's nothing she or anyone else can say to you to make you believe you're loved, if you don't feel it about yourself.

tinabelle makes good sense

I understand what you're going through. I had that same fear,
3 years ago, just before August. And I lost her, that August.
Of course it wasn't until the last week part of the month. I tried fighting the feeilng, by telling myself that she knows
I'd be hurt if she ends it with me, and that she's too considerate, to hurt me ( she often said she'd never do anything to huurt me). But unfortunately that wasn't true,
after all. But you could fight it, by telling yourself, that
there must be some women some where, out there, who are interested in you. Let me know, if that helps, or if the feeling just can't be fought, which is what I think. Sorry, if
that answer doesn't help.