I try to cherish every moment of whatever I do, wherever I am, that never is with the value & everything I have.I'm a man who lives life as it comes to me. I do not worry about tomorrow because it will be here no matter what I do. The best days of my life are still yet to come when I meet a special woman. I cannot afford to play mind games because it hurts me really a lot! Be through the worst pain in the report is not all that easy sharing with people simply because it hurts

Then how can you use online dating?
You really cherish every moment that you're staring at a computer screen and reading profile after profile of cliches that say the same thing? Of email conversations that just end for no apparent reason?


Then why use online dating?
Again, you're just sitting there staring at a screen, waiting for an email to come back to you.


Otherwise (if you cherish every moment of whatever you do, living life as it comes to you) that means you are just waiting for women to chase you online.
That's not all that effective of a strategy.

But maybe that's the reason for the billboarding thread.


So you never set up dates for the future?
Like next saturday?
Only meeting people the same day you contact them?
If you did, then to some extent you'd have to worry about making the date, and the date itself.


How can you know that unless you've worried about the future i.e. tomorrow?


Isn't that a lot of responsibility to put on the woman?
Since you don't worry about tomorrow, you only live life as it comes, then that means she has to provide something more than now in order for you to judge them the best days.

That's a lot of responsibility to put on one person.


Learning to communicate can be seen as one big mind game.
You are trying to learn how their mind works.
It's easier to learn any language if you can start thinking in that language.
The mind is the biggest erogenous zone.

If you don't play mind games to some extent you're pretty much shooting yourself in the foot.


Again, that's worrying about the future.
Avoiding pain you aren't feeling yet.

So...good luck with all that.