If u totally respect someone and never think of making out with her in real lyf, never looked at her in that way.
But at one night u get a dream of having sex with her and sharing a real intimacy with her

Den next day when u meet her how u will feel?
Does u look at her the same way as before ?

The question is vice-a-versa for the ladies also.... "

It wears off after a while. Phew.

You were just dreaming the first time around

I'm NOT sure whether 'you' (or 'anyone' for that matter) would ever have such a 'dream'; that too, involving the one held in 'high esteem' and never 'looked at' that way, before.. I'm really not sure whether 'your' post is valid..Just my opinion.

Good Luck.

Obviously, there was sexual attraction. Respect has little or nothing to do with it.

If I had no intentions of pursuing them, I would avoid and/ or stop being friends or associating with them.
Once sex or romance or love is a factor... we are no longer friends.

Yes, no problem for me, but then I'm old enough and educated enough and know myself well enough that I know right away that such dreams have nothing to do with the real world.

They are a natural result of your subconscious trying to entertain you using whatever random thoughts and images you may have laying around in your brain when you fall asleep. Hopefully, by the time you pass the age of fifteen, you have developed the ability to remain professional and polite in your outward behavior even if you think you overheard the lady suffering a blowout in the ladies room.

Before looking into her eyes I would first correct the words I misspelled....

Depends on my relationship with the woman I'm dreaming about.

Is it my mother?
My boss?
My coworker?
Some chick I'm talking to on the internet?
Some woman at the grocery store that rang up my groceries and was the last person I saw before going home to bed?
A girl from class?
My FWB?
My ex/ex wife?
My "friend?"


Maybe.
Depends on how strong the dream was.
Are we talking waking up with full raging morning stiffness that ripped a hole in the mattress?
Or are we talking about it ended and woke me up because they turned into an octopus smurf locking me into a snake top hat?

It might take me a couple of minutes or days to just go back to normal and forget about it.

It might make me start wondering if it's possible.
It might make me start wondering if there's a reason for the dream.
Depends on the relationship.