You are right joyce........paper means nothing but I like to be queen for the day......I have a bit of a tiara fetish.......I like ceremonies........I like beaches.......ahhhhhhhhhhhhhhh gooooooooooood hmmmmmmmmm and I like to say Im married!!!

i'd just like to say i am a couple
go to the beach..spend the money on something nice

I agree Joyce....would rather spend the money going on a nice honeymoon somewhere....

you cant go on a honeymoon unless you are married........soooooooooooooo>>>>>????

anyways I will always have the memories of him crying and me laughing during our vows!!! on the beach!!!

I think I'd cry too!

I have at most weddings. It's as bad as a funeral except they're not already dead. Just a slow painful agony for many years.

Behave yourself Kid

its nerves kid!!!! I laugh when Im skeeeeeeeeeeeeeered and he cried when skeeeeeeeeeeeeeered!!!!!!!!!!!!!! still a beautiful wedding........I have to admit

why you cry at weddings????

kid even cries before he goes for a nap

call it what you want== you can still vacation with the money you save if you decide to get married just sign it and enjoy the trip

I want a quickie wedding but not a quick root. I will really cry

Grey, I am behaving!

Not wasting the money on honeymoon either...just hook up hot tub in the backyard and soak up, cuddle up, kissy kissy and look up at the million stars

If I ever get married, wouldn't be in this lifetime however, lol..i agree with what Jess said..elope...or just nothing "fancy"....yikes...just writing this about marriage and I'm breaking out in hives....

Sin...i agree with how your going about doing it...It isn't about the white dress...fancy ceremony, etc;...
Congrats..and best wishes..

afterthought..hot tub!!....kissy kissy?..hmmm..methinks there may be more to it than that?...
be happy....

Am too old for all them fuss......I think young people can have all the fuss.

I have friends that are still paying for their wedding debt and no longer happy in their marriage, what a joke eh.

of course...............hahaha

Exactly Sin...some people spend in my opinion too much money on their wedding, then wonder why they argue over finances during their marriage, still paying off their nupital debt...

However, i think it is nice if that is what one wishes...

My first and only wedding, was short and sweet..on the beach, with a few of our friends and family..nothing fancy..very simple...sunset, sound of the waves in the background...

of course that marriage has gone south..but not from the wedding...lol... ummm...I think that made sense...need more java...

Ahhh, Sin, not a Mormon wedding. A Jewish wedding. Ketubah and all. And I still don't have my get (Jewish divorce) even though HE is remarried.

Can't imagine having to jump through the rings you have to jump with a Mormon divorce. A friend of mine from work is dealing with that right now. Ugh. The thought of 'till death is hard enough without having to think about ETERNITY!

Vegas weddings are now out for me since my ex did a 'destination wedding' the second time around there. This is kind of funny since my sister is getting married and considered Vegas for a minute until I reminded her about the ex.

However, I have to disagree. I still have the best memories of my honeymoon. Trying to find someone to take me on a honeymoon without all of the wedding fuss! Nothing bad about a week in Jamaica.

Well you can skip all this and not have fuss at all and go to vegas through a drive through