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Topic: do you notice this??
unsure's photo
Fri 10/12/07 06:36 PM
When you are looking at profile pictures, if someone is wearing a wedding ring do you notice? Now for the big question~~if you liked his/her profile, would you ask them about it IF it says divorced on their profile?

countrygirldrfordtr's photo
Fri 10/12/07 06:39 PM
yes i would... but what kind of lie would they tell... u know they will lie... but i still ask...

no photo
Fri 10/12/07 06:41 PM
hmm lol, just for the record, I wear a ring on my right hand.:smile:

unsure's photo
Fri 10/12/07 06:41 PM
Thats what I was thinking...of course they are going to say its an old picture. So right from the start, our whole conversations are going to be based on a lie.

unsure's photo
Fri 10/12/07 06:43 PM
haha sincereman...are you sure its the right hand?

I checked to make sure and it is definately his left hand.

CATBW56's photo
Fri 10/12/07 06:43 PM
darn right I would ask and you are right on that one, it would start out with a liegrumble

MsTeddyBear2u's photo
Fri 10/12/07 06:45 PM
Most have head shots...

But now I will start looking since you brought it up laugh

Yes I would ask. I want someone single like me.

willy_cents's photo
Fri 10/12/07 06:45 PM
hmmmm....had my left ring finger torn off by the wedding band...no less)...so never wear any kinda jewelery. And, who are we to decide that someone is a liar from their pic...maybe it is old. How about the ladies...know lotsa single, for sure, ladies who wear rings on whatever finger, or all their fingers. Does that automatically make them all liars? tsk tsk...such a rush to judgemnt

wizewizard70's photo
Fri 10/12/07 06:45 PM
lol... that wouldn't say much for the guy/girl.

Apparently their uneducated too... noway

You're on a roll tonight Unsure!!drinker drinker

countrygirldrfordtr's photo
Fri 10/12/07 06:46 PM
i did not see the ring in this mans pic i went out with a few weeks back... but when he showed up he was all over me... i told him to back up... and i looked at his left finger.. and there was a white ring there from a tan... u know.. and i ask what is that?... he said ive been wearing my ring for sometime now and thought it was time to take it off.. i said sorry u need to go home.. and walked in the house and locked the door..

no photo
Fri 10/12/07 06:47 PM
yeah lol its my right hand but I will add to this by saying that people are sneaky and if they are stupid enough to actually leave a wedding ring on in a picture,and say they are single, I would say tell them to go take a flying leap.

Queene123's photo
Fri 10/12/07 06:47 PM
on another dating site that im on, this guy profile stated he was separated and i was asking him about it and he totally ignored me, and he pist me off for not responding to my question 2 differnt times, if he separated he better be getting a divorce, i was with a guy for 2yrs and he was separated from his wife for 5yrs, and he didnr know how to do the divorce proceedings, i helped him and he finally got his divorce after all that time

singingmyheartout's photo
Fri 10/12/07 06:49 PM
Hey...on a side note:
I was married twice and never had a ring...

(cheap bastards...) laugh
Seriously... THAT didn't bother me...

I was faithful during both marriages...

HOWEVER, both my exes cheated... SO

The ring- or lack thereof - does npt define the person or their marital status and intentions...

willy_cents's photo
Fri 10/12/07 06:50 PM
lol...used to tell ppl who asked if I was md...I am not sure...but my wife has a definite opinion on that subject

unsure's photo
Fri 10/12/07 06:54 PM
haha...NO I am just curious if I should ask him. haha I am on a roll tonight and I am going to end up in trouble, I can feel it!!
Actually willy you are right...I do sometimes wear a ring on my left hand. Its not a wedding ring, just a ring. Nope I am not married either so I guess I shouldn't judge. Ok I have been bad but I am not going to the corner for nothing!! hahablushing

s1owhand's photo
Fri 10/12/07 06:55 PM
the person defines the relationship (marriage) not the other way around. if you ask someone about their status they can be truthful or lie or be silent.

willy_cents's photo
Fri 10/12/07 06:56 PM
not even with me, unsure? cannot get in too much trouble in a corner now can we?laugh

unsure's photo
Fri 10/12/07 06:58 PM
haha willy is being a bad boy laugh

I guess I should have just left it alone with asking this person BUT you know me!! I guess I will find out the answer :tongue:

willy_cents's photo
Fri 10/12/07 06:59 PM
actually on a more serious note about asking. Dnag right...if I am talking with someone and I have a question about them...I by gum ask it...worst they can do is not answer..and if they should decide to be untruthful in their answer...well...I'll catch them some day..and be gone like a fish from a shark

unsure's photo
Fri 10/12/07 07:02 PM
Honesty is the best policy!! I guess we shall find out.

Ok all, I am off to bed, have a great night flowerforyou

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