That's an awesome tee shirt....bring a suitcase full of frilly lace I can hardly wait....bubble bath awaits...scented candles and soft rock playing in the background!!!

I think media has romanticized the "bad boy in a way that he does or has done bad things (robbery, drugs, murder, etc.) but wants to change his ways and he needs just the right woman to help him see the way. Now in movies, tv and books it makes a good story, but in real life? It just sounds like misery, danger and a lot of drama.

I'd rather have a good man.

I'll have one of these, please.

It seems to me that some of the ladies here are missing the point. If a man tells you that you can be replaced, you've done something that hurt him pretty bad. The only time I personally ever said that to a woman she had hurt me to the core. OR, I've caught her in something one way or the other.

I have had a few of them go off the deep end trying to keep me there with them. My X wife for example. It was six years of hell before I said that to her. So, You can bet if a man says that to you or someone you know, He's already out the door. He's already gone. He may be physically there with you. But in his heart and mind, He's already gone. If a man is already gone, you can't show him the door. He's already at it or gone through it. And also, if he is at that point, he doesn't care whether you can replace him or not. This is something I know a lot about. Been there and done it several times with one woman or the other.

You can call it a BS line if you want. But that is something I won't say without a made up mind. And willing to back it up.

AMEN! Truth. I'm not a bad boy. I'm a man. Grown up. It's how you carry yourself as a man. Women, in general, can sniff out whether you are a bad boy or a good man. 99 times out of 100, the women will go for the good man.

There are women out there that want the bad boy. But I believe there are more women out there that want the good man. I've dated a lot of women. Had very good relationships with a few. So far every one of them told me that they would rather be with the good man. Even if it doesn't work out. They had a good time. I'm still friends with several of them. When I turned 53 yrs old, they all got together and pitched me a birthday party. I wonder how many can say that their Xes thought that much of them?

I can relate to what you have said. In the lst year in my marriage my heart and mind was not in it. I had left before my body had.

I'd be happy with somewhere or some woman between Heaven and Hell....


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I've been the BAD BOY in my younger years but have since mellowed out into a good man!! One who appreciates all the qualities of a good woman one who is a best friend as this is where the relationship blossoms from...that interaction time shared together real quality time in your world is so hard to come by but in my world its boundless!

In my opinion, a woman wants a good man. A leader, not a follower. Not a soft man, a proven man. Decisive and firm but understanding and caring.
A man who makes her feel secure in every aspect of the relationship. And also a man who knows when to be bad and just how bad to be.

^^good summary...

Hit the spot Devildog
agree totally

I think everyone girl should date a bad boy not marry like I did but date them..It makes them appreciate the good guy all that much more..

half in half

exactly