Moodygrl – wise observation and I totally support your thoughts on this…

An example: It is like meeting a guy who just wants to be loved and wants to share a life with someone that will share the same as him. But, he just came out of a long relationship, and divorce proceedings are in progress….here you are, already gone through that crap maybe 3-4years down the track and can finally say you are ready for a serious relationship again. The difference here is that, it depends on how we process the data so we both are on the same pages as each other. If you are on different levels that don’t mean there is something bad about you. The one still learning needs to learn what he needs learning so he understands your frustration. The one feeling frustrated needs to give the other some slack, and either learn some patience, support or leave and find someone that is on the same page as you.

Yes, we have options, and either we stay or go. Yes, there are some that are just out to pull ya leg for their fun. Yes, our impatience might mean we just missed out on a good thing. Whatever we choose to understand, either it’s a bad decision or not, its all good unless you like me to tell, oh well sucked in. hahaha.

Sometimes, a situation is not always what we think it is...get off the soapbox and actually exercise some brain cells you never know you might like it and be more optimistic than the other

life is made up of the reality of everyone's illusions.
Or is it made up of the illusion of everyones reality?

I'm dealing with that right now. Says one thing but then wigs out. I think the committment thing might be a 'fear factor'

if i could find someone to trust would be an improvement over my last relationship

tombraider - you have the heart and the right idea, just need ya to believe

A happy meal!

A whopper so we can share lol

believe in what?

in what you hope to find

A bag of candy

perfect in all our human imperfections

A new helicopter, this ones getting old.

literacy


and waaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaay toooooooooooooooooooo much money

A Bugatti?

I agree totally with the perspective "willy_cents" gave a few replies ago. It was a real soul-searching eye-opener, and I guess I've experienced that from both sides of the coin.
The question is now: HOW DO WE BREAK THAT CYCLE?

well said Sin...

(sigh, twisting hair)...mayhap just need a new model??..
what is a girl to do??....
Just keep putting one foot in front of the other and not to expect anything...
I appreciate your words of wisdom!...

I think both 'willy_cents" and "sin" have good posts.

For me comes down to a challenge .. when the challenge is over, it's an unwillingness to commit.

Except if I'm REALLY in love. Then it's there. Plain and simple. hmmmmmmmmmmmmmm