Anyone who has read my profile can see that my age is 45.

They can see it says "never married" under Marital Status.

Yes, I've never been married, nor do I have any children.

I've had several women--on this site, no less--tell me they think that is VERY weird.

I'd like to hear from the ladies out there, and the guys if they too have an opinion on this.

Is being 45, never married with no kids, WEIRD?

Ohhhhhh sweetie,, I dont think its wierd,,,, Love and finding the one who loves you completely takes time,,,,, there is no age limit on life,,,, Live your life,, be happy and in time,, one may never know,,

I am 48 y/o and never married but do have a child. I have heard some comments. It does not mean that I have not had a long term relationship, though. I was with someone for 12 yrs.
Things just happen.

actually no its not weird as i know a few men that never been married and dont have kids.. so your not the rare one. if i were you dont worry

Thanks, ladies . I'm not worried, tho. I've had relationships over the years, but I just didn't care about them in a "marriage" way, I guess. Not being in a marriage is better than being in one that doesn't have a total commitment. That being said, I would like to be married one day--for the right reasons, of course.

I'm rooting for ya knox.

If for no other reason,
because you're not a freakin'
Packer backer!!!

Are the "You're weird" responses coming from women your own age or younger women? Cause I can see how someone within my age range may find it strange. This isn't to say that I think it's strange. Marriage is something that shouldn't be entered into lightly. If you don't find that person you want to spend the next ____(insert years here) with then you don't find em.

no thats not at all weird man, dont worry about what people say

my uncle's 48 and he's never been married and he doesn't have any kids either,so it's not weird

that's not wierd at all, personally I would prefer to go out with a guy that has never been married, although I have been married twice, that's wierd

I have a brother who's 58,never been married and no kids.He's still looking for the right woman.

no. it just means u don't go out and marry every chick on the planet. it means you take time to actually get to know someone before rushing into big serious things. and who ever said it was weird... ignore them. its not. and some women may perfer it when going out with you.

not weird at all---means that you havent found exactly what your looking for and you wont lower you're standards and settle for something you're not completly happy with..grat quality to have....some woman is going to find that extremly attractive

Even if it is.... so what?

Knox, it's not weird at all, just means you know yourself well enough to know when something's just not there for you. You deserve everything you want, don't settle!

Suz

Knox, I don't think it's weird. Women go through that all the time when they haven't been married and don't have children. Yes, I've been married and divorced, but I never had children. It's such a sterotype like somethings wrong with them. You know yourself and you're not willing to settle. I don't find it weird at all Knox.

No, I don't believe it's weird..I think says alot about you, actually.

Knox, it is not weird. The only thing I wonder about if people are older and have never been married or have been married several times is; do they have problems with Long Term Relationships?

There are all kinds of relationships and I guess it just depends what people are looking for. Some folks just want to date, some want friends with benefits, some want marriage, the list goes on and on.

People just have to find out what makes them happy and works best for them. Then be honest with whoever you get into a relationship with.

Nah I don't think weird at all. I think weird though like my neigbor if you 52 and still live at home. But I also give him kudos for wanting to take care of his parents in their old age. I also think their is a soul mate chosen for each and every person and if your patient that soulmate will come around and you will live happily ever after. I found mind and have only been married once to him for 26 years and counting. (wow thats more then half my life)

Nah your not weird- just smart!

All joking aside- someday the right one will come along
for you Knoxman.