we love u but its difficult for you love us why

who are you talking about?

maybe because you are 34 years old and still in school. The ladies like men who work...just the way it is.

If you're talking men and women I would say it was the other way around, possibly.

Not in all cases I might add.

why the other way round?

it could be because the ladies like Joe, but he is reserved for only one...

I have to assume you are talking to women in general, and not bears.

I am going to work on that assumption.

Why does it seem it's more difficult for women to love men than men to love women?

Because a lot of men don't really love women, they just adopt the exact same behavior and communication as someone in love in order to trick women in to sex, so loving behavior can't be trusted in and of itself without getting to know you and what your true motives are.

And a lot of men don't realize they don't love women, because they've lied to and manipulated themselves into believing they love women, and it's true until it has to be tested in any teeny tiny minor way that requires any kind of consistent behavior on his part, like sticking around after sex.
A lot of guys go through the whole cycle of "I want a real relationship! You too? Oh baby I love you so much, forever, it's in the stars...thanks for the sex...uh, I gotta work early, I'll call you....hey, I'm on the forums, why is it so hard to find a good woman!?! I just want a serious relationship! Where are you my forever love? Oh, hi, I love you, thanks for the sex, gotta go, where is sheeeee?!" and around and around.


Someone simply ejaculating the words "I love you!" is just a mouth fart.
And your behavior isn't really understood, until a lot of time is spent around you experiencing that behavior in different situations and environments, to come to know what it means.


Women have more to lose if you don't really "love" them, if they don't spend more time figuring out your motives.
It's easier for you to run away and leave her with a full belly, and a parasite that feeds off her for at least 18 years, than for her to just leave.


That's why it seems more difficult for women to love men than men to love women. It costs them more if they make a mistake.

I have never heard of an unplanned pregnancy explained quite that way before


I think it can be difficult for both genders to love..
I know for me I want to make sure before I jump in...