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Well, Im writing in this forum after I had very very bad experience in this site. I know bcs of this site is totally free, so all people can join in this site easily and lot of faker here. Frankly I hate it. Im here looking for seriously relationship. But what Ive got is only faker and heart breaker.
After more than 3 years Im here, finally ive got my dream man who live near my island. I have plan for visiting him next september. Im ready to spend money n my time for him. But this is our problem started. when I asked him, will he take leave from work when i am there? but what he said? he said easily said. "I can't! so if you want me all to yourself when you are here then you have to come when I HAVE holiday. i just want to make myself crystal clear here. i am sorry but i have to be straight forward.bye!" what happened after that was, he really really broke my heart. In this forum, I just want to know. what actually men want from women? Are you happy guys if u see, someone who loves you n do everything for you, cry bcs of you? Hope i get clearly answer here.thanks |
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Edited by
IamwhoIam1
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Tue 07/07/15 09:15 PM
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I feel your pain. Men can be very stubborn and foolish and don't know a good thing when they see it. There are some who won't see a woman because he feels she lives too far away, even if she's amazing. They think women like that grow on trees. Let them learn the hard way. I went through this with my ex-BF. He didn't realize what he had until he lost me. Now, he still tries to call me from to time to time, even after years of no communication, but I ignore his calls.
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I feel your pain. Men can be very stubborn and foolish and don't know a good thing when they see it. There are some who won't see a woman because he feels she lives too far away, even if she's amazing. They think women like that grow on trees. Let them learn the hard way. I went through this with my ex-BF. He didn't realize what he had until he lost me. Now, he still tries to call me from to time to time, even after years of no communication, but I ignore his calls. Hi IamwhoIam1, Nice to hear from you, Yeah, it happened just few hours ago, And made me cry at workplace, damn! You are lucky that u can do revenge to your ex BF..lol..I'm sure you are very nice girl. But Actually Im not that strong enough. :( |
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sorry for your lose
but people have to work to keep food on the table <shrug> if i find a lady with enough money to take care of us then i have no problem with spending all my time with them but sad to say the bills will not pay them selfs i tryed sending them back to the people that sent them to ask them to pay for them cause i didnt want them they sent them back saying they will turn them off if i did not and yes i am being for real : ) men and females can be stubborn i cant argue there and many different people have many different out looks on life and the way it should be some like myself think it should be an equal party type of thing others think they should wear the pants so to speak we all have are own breaking points , likes and diss likes i do notice the older i get the more picky i am becoming but i would like to see the same thing as most would i sapose some one that wouldnt lie to me , would speak the thoughts in there head no matter how crazy they thought it was , and someone that would not ignore me for no reason at all (just learned that one)someone that knows we will not all ways see eye to eye and wants to keep working at it to see it through to the end more or less what my grandparents had a lot of the times they wanted to kill the other but still kept it togeather best wishes on your hunt : ) oh and keep in mind not all people are bad : ) just seams that way sometimes |
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I am sorry I see this two different ways here
One you could be right and he was stinging you along. Or.... He has to work to provide a home,food, clothing etc. He didn't say not to come he said that if you wanted him all to yourself during the holiday..Then you would have to do it during his holiday.. Why not do that??? If this was the man of my dreams I sure in the hell would find a way to compromise.. I also believe there is more to the story than what is here. I am sorry you are hurting... Best wishes.. |
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Edited by
Meida
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Tue 07/07/15 09:57 PM
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sorry for your lose but people have to work to keep food on the table <shrug> if i find a lady with enough money to take care of us then i have no problem with spending all my time with them but sad to say the bills will not pay them selfs i tryed sending them back to the people that sent them to ask them to pay for them cause i didnt want them they sent them back saying they will turn them off if i did not and yes i am being for real : ) men and females can be stubborn i cant argue there and many different people have many different out looks on life and the way it should be some like myself think it should be an equal party type of thing others think they should wear the pants so to speak we all have are own breaking points , likes and diss likes i do notice the older i get the more picky i am becoming but i would like to see the same thing as most would i sapose some one that wouldnt lie to me , would speak the thoughts in there head no matter how crazy they thought it was , and someone that would not ignore me for no reason at all (just learned that one)someone that knows we will not all ways see eye to eye and wants to keep working at it to see it through to the end more or less what my grandparents had a lot of the times they wanted to kill the other but still kept it togeather best wishes on your hunt : ) oh and keep in mind not all people are bad : ) just seams that way sometimes I know, its just a time. And thanks anyway for your answering :) But OMG, 3 years here n what ive got is only pain and broken heart? Ive met lot of guys here. And what he was looking for is only "fun" and money. I just want to tell you Dude, that women are made from your rib. it's bend. You can't treat them too strict. U will broke them. But Rib is protecting your heart. so please respect them! Thanks Meida |
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I am sorry I see this two different ways here One you could be right and he was stinging you along. Or.... He has to work to provide a home,food, clothing etc. He didn't say not to come he said that if you wanted him all to yourself during the holiday..Then you would have to do it during his holiday.. Why not do that??? If this was the man of my dreams I sure in the hell would find a way to compromise.. I also believe there is more to the story than what is here. I am sorry you are hurting... Best wishes.. I know that he didnt ask me to not come. the problem is only the way he talk to me. It's like ok if u can't accept it u can go away! I will more appreciates if he just say, sorry i cant take leave, u can come later on my holiday if u want. Thanks, Meida |
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sorry for your lose but people have to work to keep food on the table <shrug> if i find a lady with enough money to take care of us then i have no problem with spending all my time with them but sad to say the bills will not pay them selfs i tryed sending them back to the people that sent them to ask them to pay for them cause i didnt want them they sent them back saying they will turn them off if i did not and yes i am being for real : ) men and females can be stubborn i cant argue there and many different people have many different out looks on life and the way it should be some like myself think it should be an equal party type of thing others think they should wear the pants so to speak we all have are own breaking points , likes and diss likes i do notice the older i get the more picky i am becoming but i would like to see the same thing as most would i sapose some one that wouldnt lie to me , would speak the thoughts in there head no matter how crazy they thought it was , and someone that would not ignore me for no reason at all (just learned that one)someone that knows we will not all ways see eye to eye and wants to keep working at it to see it through to the end more or less what my grandparents had a lot of the times they wanted to kill the other but still kept it togeather best wishes on your hunt : ) oh and keep in mind not all people are bad : ) just seams that way sometimes I know, its just a time. And thanks anyway for your answering :) But OMG, 3 years here n what ive got is only pain and broken heart? Ive met lot of guys here. And what he was looking for is only "fun" and money. I just want to tell you Dude, that women are made from your rib. it's bend. You can't treat them too strict. U will broke them. But Rib is protecting your heart. so please respect them! Thanks Meida you don't know me so i will let that one slide i respect females more then i do myself not to sure about the rib part (i am not religious) but i do like the part .. But Rib is protecting your heart thats nice : ) and yes i have been hurt a lot too , but i move on and understand that not all people are the same and if he is the love of your life , i think you are being a little hard on him for his choice of words ...since it seams you got his meaning even iof it was not the words you would have liked to hear but i am not to say what you are or are not to do that is all up to you i do wish you the best : ) we should all have the best and again sorry for your pain : ( |
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Don't worry, those aren't real fakes.
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I will be back when things start getting less weirder
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Don't worry, those aren't real fakes. Thanks :) |
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I will be back when things start getting less weirder LOL |
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maybe, he wasn't the one for you after all?
it could be a blessing in disguise? but then again, it could just be that it just didn't work out for you both good luck |
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maybe, he wasn't the one for you after all? it could be a blessing in disguise? but then again, it could just be that it just didn't work out for you both good luck Yeah But I did feel it with some men, not only him. Sometimes I got confused with what men want from us. Meida |
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