Yes.
Tons.


Ooooh, no. Sorry.
Except for blind people.
Everyone that uses their eyes for any reason judges by looks to some degree.
At best what you can find is someone who doesn't have an extremely negative judgment based on looks.
Or doesn't preclude everything else solely on an immediate sight impression.

If someone doesn't judge by how things look, they'd run into glass doors constantly, eat rotten fruit or gray meat from the grocery store, not honk their horn before being hit by another car, stare at the same billboard on the side of the road every time they pass by and possibly get into an accident, and hit on children and men as well as women for dates whenever they went out.

As long as a person has to judge something by how it looks in any area of their life, they will apply that ability to everything in their life.

Might as well ask "I love rap. This one guy hates it, can't stand hearing it. How do I either turn off his ears when I play rap, or get him to hear classical music whenever rap plays?"


IME this almost universally translates to "really, I want to be treated how I want to be treated, I want you to know how I want to be treated without me having to tell you. Just accept me and don't question anything. Be proactively reactive to my needs."

Hypothetically let's say I'm a guy who wants to be treated with respect. But I believe respect is "earned." Respect is earned by ability. So I treat you by pushing your boundaries, pushing your abilities, to show your abilities, to try harder, think harder, move harder, all by utilizing my abilities.

I am treating you how I want to be treated...do you like that?
Or do you "really" want to be treated a different way? How you think you should be treated?


It really depends on your tolerance level.
There's a huge difference between "nooooo! I didn't empty out your 401k for the casino!" vs. "yum, this tofu paste sugarfree protein candy is goooooood!"
There's a difference between "I swear I didn't steal your credit card to pay for the hotel to bang your sister" vs. "I swear I didn't steal your panties last time we banged all weekend to keep under my pillow, and I didn't eat the last brownie!"

As absolutes, everyone lie's, cheats, and steals to some degree.


Do you really want to date someone who gave you a chance?
As opposed to wanted to date you?
You're okay with the thought process "well, I'm not really attracted to her, I don't really 'want' to date her...but...I'll give her a chance, maybe it will be okay."
There is a huge difference.
In some areas this is just like a job.
No one is going to come beat down your door in order to give you everything you want to do as little as you want.

IMO you're better off doing what you have to in order to make your own chance than asking for dating chance alms from others.



Other than that, you should realize the more you idealize your type of guy the more you limit your dating options.
You limit your supply.
Nothing wrong with that, but the more unique the individual, the greater competition you will have for them.
Dating is a competition game far more than it could ever be considered a numbers game.
What are you competing with?

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marshmellowlove ...now pay him no mind... he is like a spoiled child... when he does not get what he wants ... but he can be funny and welcome

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When I find him I will check to see if he has a brother available.
Until then girl keep looking.
Good luck

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