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Debbie posted >>>
oh my lord Kinda-of reminds me of petting one of my lovely little furry dogs I just can't imagine how quickly the shower drains would become 'CLOGGED UP' lol, its looks so cute on animals, but that's as far as it goes, that is living lol ewwww gross. I can picture a hairy drain |
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no1phD asked >>>
Lol.. ok... you just met your special someone.. things are at that stage.. .. where your.. allowed to explore each others bodies.... great right?.. .. but what happens when you're exploring their body.. and you find a stray hair that shouldn't really be there..lol.... perhaps on her... breast.. .... or chin.... god forbid she has a dingleberry hanging from her nose...... Well, as often happens when meeting/greeting people in any social places; you've never had to offer a friend/a relative/a new human a tissue to take care of that nostril issue Why would your 'sexual interest' in this new woman be any different; what if she saw a huge snot clump hanging out your nose --- wouldn't it hurt you if she leapt up and just ran away without any explanation? But on the flip side of your question...I had a co-worker that had just returned to work from her maternity leave {6 months - twin girls} and her hormones were off the charts; but while she was on 'FML' she had acquired a mustache and a chin whisker that was right in the center of her chin and about 1� long I walked her into the bathroom and showed her the new acquisitions --- while she was mortified at least she had time to leave the work place and go grab a disposalable razor and take care of her facial issues before everyone in the entire building dropped in to see photos of the babies! Don't we owe our fellow humans the same respect and opportunity to take care of those issues? That's why I never did 'casual sex' / first night lay overs / or sex on the first date; I wanted to know who I was laying with - what personal hygiene habits they had and if that first time was going to happen - a joint shower or bubble bath was going to be in the plans for that nights activity! My husband thought I was just one real 'PRUDE' of a women...but I stuck to my guns and it so made that first night ever so special. And yes, I'd already been married and my son was 3� by that time - we'd been dating for well over a year! |
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Personally it would be a huge turn off. I am in agreeance with most of the woman out here, there is waxing for godsake and if a man can't clean his bum well enough I am not getting near it and fun times are over and never to return.
I did date this guy that hair growing out of his ears whenever I saw it I lost all track of what we were talking about etc.. I finally offered a hair trimmer. He didn't get it and I didn't go back.. Bad hygiene isn't only a dealbreaker it is sickening to me.The same with the teeth for Godsake brush and floss them suckers..Keep breath mints handy... I don't want to taste what you ate for lunch... |
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even if it was your favorite???
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even if it was your favorite??? I carry mini wintergreen altoids all the time several tins of them... |
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so beer breathe is NOT a good thing???
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SitkaRains stated >>>
Personally it would be a huge turn off. I am in agreeance with most of the woman out here, there is waxing for godsake and if a man can't clean his bum well enough I am not getting near it and fun times are over and never to return. I did date this guy that hair growing out of his ears whenever I saw it I lost all track of what we were talking about etc.. I finally offered a hair trimmer. He didn't get it and I didn't go back... Bad hygiene isn't only a dealbreaker it is sickening to me.The same with the teeth for Godsake brush and floss them suckers..Keep breath mints handy... I don't want to taste what you ate for lunch... I guess my revulsion about hair on a man's head was modified after taking care of some really charming ole vets during their last days on earth! It's amazing to them as well that as they aged the amount of hair that just started sprouting out of places on their heads was beyond reason and control. So I would groom them ever so gently and make them more presentable --- wasn't their fault that those eye brows just suddenly took on a life of their own - grew hair out their ears like a chimpanzee - and those nose hairs --- WOWSERS! But I'll admit --- every time see some ole' duffer on the TV {ole news people seem to be the worst} I just want to grab them and 'FIX IT'...why doesn't some loving/caring human mention those issues to the poor ole guy??? BTW - you've gotta be careful with those nostril clippers; they are wicked - wicked - wicked if they aren't sharp --- nothing will hurt worse then having those pulled out in a dull clipper. |
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2old what you are describing is totally different than what I was describing...I am talking about a person that has the ability to groom oneself not someone that can't..
good grief woman I had to have help last night to shave my pits and one of my legs.. I am not a snob or someone without compassion I am talking about a healthy 45 year old that was to lazy to take care of it himself.. I trimmed my grandfathers eyebrows for the last 20 years of his life..at his request |
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SitkaRains stated >>>
2old what you are describing is totally different than what I was describing...I am talking about a person that has the ability to groom oneself not someone that can't.. good grief woman I had to have help last night to shave my pits and one of my legs.. I am not a snob or someone without compassion I am talking about a healthy 45 year old that was to lazy to take care of it himself.. I trimmed my grandfathers eyebrows for the last 20 years of his life..at his request No - Nooooo, you missed my 'MY REVULSION' wording? As In It Used To Freak Me Out Too --- that's what/why I typed the rest I wasn't critiquing you or what freaked you out...we all have our little oddities that grind on our nerves. |
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Lol.. ok... you just met your special someone.. things are at that stage.. .. where your.. allowed to explore each others bodies.... great right?.. .. but what happens when you're exploring their body.. and you find a stray hair that shouldn't really be there..lol.... perhaps on her... breast.. .... or chin.... god forbid she has a dingleberry hanging from her nose...... ... now I can oversee.... perhaps one stray hair that was overlooked in the .grooming process... but on your second visit so to speak.. it is still there.....hmm... do you overlook it or do you say something..... or is that a deal breaker for you... you just don't feel it is your place to tell them... so you stop seeing them.... because it simply grosses you out.... sure sure you can make up some other excuse... ....... but months later you still having nightmares....lol... ..... I know it is hard to bring the subject up..... I work side by side some guys.. that have .. hair coming right out of their nose... I just want to reach over and yank it out myself..lmao... but nobody ever says anything......so... stray hair... pluck it out ?or run away from it.?.. Hmm. Kinda enjoying this debacle. Oh and OP, I'm in agreement with you but still I'm having fun reading this. |
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LOL! The OP really needs to move to NYC in the Upper East Side, or perhaps Chappaqua in Westchester County. Those women are groomed w/a capital G. He would be the one who would be rejected on the basis of: wrong hair/clothes/car/job/heritage/personal trainer etc., and the rejection would come waaaay before he ever got even close enough to explore their landscaped physiques.
IMO, hygiene is super important for both sexes & no one should be getting intimate w/any one whose body doesn't turn them on enough to prevent them from going through a "check list" while getting naked w/the other person. If you're assessing her like that during foreplay...well, why bother? She's obviously not attractive enough to you to make you want her body to the exclusion of all else going on in the moment. Who wants sex under those circumstances? As Pink sings - Just you & your hand tonight (hope it's well groomed too...) |
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