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Topic: How will you adjust things between your friend & you when yo
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Tue 06/30/15 05:03 PM
If your friend & you had a quarrel between eachother how will you handle the situation

Depending on the quarrel I would say sorry, and then move on.

By moving on I mean not dwell on it or worry about it, go back to inviting him over or out to go do stuff, but not make my life dependent upon him saying yes or listening to my feelings.

Eventually, he will tell me to stop, start saying yes and we go do stuff like friends, or I just get tired of asking silence and find other friends.

..if there is a misunderstanding with him what is the best possible way to tell sorry..

Since this is the forums I am not sure what you mean by this.

A lot of people that ask "what's the best possible way to..." something, on the forums, usually mean "what's a way to do something to guarantee I get the result I want, they behave how I want them to?"

There's a huge difference between "I want to express myself clearly" and "I want to express myself in a way that gets certain results."

The best way to say sorry is any way that makes it clear, not dependent upon anything else (No "sorry, but..."), and doesn't trivialize, marginalize, or judge how the other person behaved.

To get the result you want, there's no guarantee, and it depends on the type of person they are.

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Tue 06/30/15 07:53 PM
all of you that don't immediately cut out of your lives any and all that don't agree 100% with 100% of your 100% infallibilities are 100% wrong.

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Tue 06/30/15 10:16 PM
No sir Ihave not done such things..it's just my misunderstanding..I just made a new friend & I thought he is not worthy of my trust..so I said him that i am not going to talk with not directly in front of face no i said it while chatting on web & when I make my mind that why is not it forgotten & start a new friendship so I directly said that I am sorry from my heart & all the mistakes are mine..but still denied..to forgive

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Tue 06/30/15 10:54 PM
yes stubbornness.. I agree that's a really good word...laugh :angel: .

.... just say three Hail Marys...lol.. and you will be set free..laugh :angel: :angel:

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Wed 07/01/15 12:37 AM

Over the last few days, I have repented of all my mistakes and apologized for everything. Despite this, you still do not forgive me. What must I do to show you that things can be different? One mistake does not have to define a lifetime............. Pfft ... your lips are moving but i am not listening ... written by a man who does not understand a woman's mind rofl rofl

It's his way of expressing his emotion but how to express your feelings it's your unique way & I have shown this way also my apology..what's your way now??

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Wed 07/01/15 06:44 AM
Maybe I need some more of your suggestions reply pls:-!

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