IMO, in our younger years we had skating rings, drive-ins, mini golf; and it keeps going. I noticed now that there's so many expectations and wants, requirements; basically an unwritten resume! If you think about it, or when I do anyways back then I'd said whatever lol Simply back then you come as you are and are open with what life brings you from there on. I'm not sure how many will read this or respond; but for all you ladies out there. Keep in mind there are some men that truly are wanting "A FRIEND." Of course all or most men still have sex on their mind, that should be expected but that doesn't mean that's all that is wanted! To sum this post up, try and remember when you was younger and had more of an open mind; "Opportunity-Love-true friendship-& Happiness Is Where You Find It!" I hope this post/opinion helps you in your search for your match; if you only look in a very small area, your chances will be small as well. 42/S/W/M from Modesto, Ca

I think as we get older, we get more and more scarred from broken/toxic relationships. People cheat, lie and do crazy things. And this causes most adults to be overly-cautious and cynical. It's a cruel world out there.