I know that not all women might be interested in all males who have been sending them messages but as a general principle I see that the girls, mostly Indian, never reply to the messages. I mean they need not strike a conversation but at least even a polite gensture of disinterest can be conveyed. What's the whole purpose of Being here if one is not even ready to talk or least reply back once !???

Ur absolutely rihh..I damn agree with u bro

Stand in their shoes man, see their problem(s).

Is there a woman from Jullandhar?
That's demanding man, demanding.

In fact we have a ready school in the forum:
Dating & Relationships.
Believe me, it was initially confusing but
then I began to hear, listen and now understand
on what women mean by Relationships - which we
in India take for granted. Best education in the world.

So if you do want a response why not take the trouble
of re-writing your profile.
Look up other profiles man - don't be shy; there are some
great write-ups there. And if you are sending a message
squeeze in a line like: You know my darling, just knowing
that you are there has changed my life. Now I cannot return
to my old life.

After all what's there to lose? She's hunting for white men anyway.
But she may drop a note of regret cause you are such a puppy.

Guys,
I say, our girls don't even bother to look in India forum.
Why?
Because anyBloodyFool can write a lonely heart line.

Now let's say you crack a joke in the Jokes forum
If it makes me laugh,
I will direct one of the girls to send you a mail.

Cause a lot of these 20 year olds keep falling on my lap.
All my daughter's age group.

I'm looking for real women you know, women in their 40s.

So, any young man trust me & take the challenge?

Can't agree more

As they say one has to break the egg to make an omelet

As you are the first guy to respond to me in this forum, thought of
sharing with all our 'innocents' the few things I learnt the hard way:

1. Very few girls in my age group - 40+ (X Gen). Plenty in the 20+ (Y Gen).
In both groups, girls don't put up their photo - maybe some iconic picture
or a sunset. On interests it is: 'tell you later'

2. Case Study: There was one profile with the picture of her foot.
To me it looked delicious so why not and I sent a few ardent mail.
But the foot never replied.

Oh yes, I have been a member for over a year & wrote to flowers,
sunsets and in one case the backside of a horse - no, nothing.

3. Fact is Our girls love Americans:
Then I read not one but two posts from American gents about how their mail was loaded with 97% of them from Indian girls!!!

This was confirmed independently when the only girl I had some correspondence with last year discontinued and then when she came back she
indirectly admitted that she was 'busy' in correspondence with a foreigner and as that didn't work out, so...

Lets not blame Indian girls. After all it's the Dollar / Rupee exchange rate at work? Or maybe they want to break their eggs and get out of this 'unpredictable zoo' we have made out of our Indian forum. So whatever
for them.

4. American girls:
As a complimentary gesture I mailed to a couple of American 'friends'
Aargh!! One of them even pasted my mail in the forums.

Conclusions: Everybody has different experiences, so this has been
mine.

Then why am I here?
For the forums like Science where outstanding contributions are made - some of which are MIT level - which on request the members simplify to my level.
The political forum for their realistic discussions - Greece failure is
now a hot topic; and for the occasionally great joke - eyeopeners to find we all laugh at the same things.

I would suggest to the Y Gen guys that instead of the dead-end effort for
girls (aches and pains); why not involve in a forum, place at least one or two views on topics for the experience.

As Mingle is an international forum - views may not be acceptable to many; but it's democracy here.

As one girl wrote to a columnist:
"I am 15 and I want to join a convent. The problem is, I am not Catholic. ... I want to become a nun because I've never had a date and I'll probably never have one."
My suggestion would have been: Join us in the Mingle forums. You can
get to meet the other nuns and ..a few monks.

an awesome guide to net dating man...an interesting insight

Not really a joke anymore. Here is a recent plea for assistance from a member:


Halfway from Texas is actually Bangalore!! I know our girls are bright but
not outright 'wicked'!!

And here is the response from another member:


The only people who speak 'American' outside of America is ..oh, hell!
Man, I just gave up.

u are ryt dude

You made some good points there. I've noticed how many Indian guys can sound demanding.

But that puppy thing doesn't really play well with me. I think after my divorce, I'm all out of cute sentiments. Love isn't easy. Maintaining a relationship feels like being in a warzone. And girls in early 20s don't really get the severeness of love.

I don't have the time or energy to entertain a daddy's girl whose thighs are burning. Like you, I'm also looking for a real woman who knows how to deal with real love - or at least intends to give her best.

I'm new here and haven't really come across anyone who would fits that "image".

check this out:
http://mingle2.com/topic/418663