So I've been on this site for a while now and I'm finding that there alot of people who like to talk, but never go anywhere.
My problem is trying to juggle my parental responsibilities, full time shift work commitments, catching up with friends & family, and then finding the time to actually get out and date.
It just seems that I'm busy catching up with housework when I'm not working or organising the kids. Is there time for someone else in my life????
Does anyone have any advice on how to navigate this tricky predicament?

I have discovered the answer is No...
sorry.... well that is unless you want to fold this other person into your life... but if you are just dating..... a couple hours a week if you're lucky...
. just enough time for dinner a glass of wine... and a dance around the Boom Boom Room...lol.... then back home to kids house work and your job .... and a lot of texting....lol..

I only date when my daughter is visiting her dad but seems men dont find that appealing that i have limited time so its been a struggle to find dates. And yes the weekends shes gone are my clean house weekends so it is most definately a balancing act but thats parenting.