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only thing you can really do is try i know i enjoyed life a lot more when i had a lady with me <shrug> maybe one day i will get lucky enough to have that joy again older i get seams less chance of it happening but i still try just a lot more slower on the jump now a days i know what you mean...and there is no harm in being cautious... 
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i have to be cautious , don't like the feeling when what is left of my heart breaks off yet another piece
but i am still dumb enough to try again : ) |
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i have to be cautious , don't like the feeling when what is left of my heart breaks off yet another piece but i am still dumb enough to try again : )  ...that's coz love might be lovelier after all 
maybe it's what we felt when we had that first love that we are still hoping for...that makes us try and try...to find that "right" fit...*sigh*.... 
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nah , i am not looking for that feeling of the first love , cause i know that will never happen again
the next will be different cause i have grown a lot since then gotten more complexe and look at stuff a lot different then way back when |
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Edited by
Pansytilly
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Sat 06/20/15 10:29 AM
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lol...of course...i have to qualify...what i mean is that feeling of lightness, of being content and well..."innocent". i figure, there were a lot of factors that complicated what first love ought to be...but then again, first loves are different for each one of us. |
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yup i agree , is different for all of us
then you add in the way females and males look at stuff and that makes it even more fun : ) is part of what makes life fun i think , is all the different outlooks people have how boring it would be if every one thought the same way |
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hahaha! yeah...maybe not so innocent for some
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"first love never dies" I would say that the love that gave us most never dies. For me, the first one was a disaster, but taught me a lot - what I should never be and what I should never alow to happen with me. But the second one - that was a love that never died, only changed into beautiful memories, into gratitude, uplifting me and giving me strength when life knocks me down. And surprisingly, it did not have influence on any of my relationships, keeping my attention somewhere else. On the contrary, it made me better for any other man that came afterwards, made me more loving, more understanding, more tolerant. "love is lovelier the second time around"
Maybe it is true for somebody, but for me personally no, it never happened. Because when in love I�m trying to do everything I can to keep it alive, going away only when I did everything I could and there was no point for staying. And love disappeared. Couple of weeks ago I met my ex on a party with our mutual friends. He wanted me back and I asked him why when he did everything to separate us. He told me that he did what he could to forget but he couldn�t, that I am so very attractive. I asked him what is so attractive about me and he said that I am not a model, but I am so loving, caring, giving all... Although so dam n stubborn, too :). But I felt nothing toward him. Gave all I could to save it and now for me he was just someone I knew, with whome I can talk and laugh but have no interest in reviving old things. And that is how it always happens. So for me, there is no second time. |
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well i don't go in to a new love thinking about and old i go in with hope that it will work where as the others didn't i don't love the same way again its all ways different cause the people are different there out looks on life , things they think about , etc etc etc And this is something I can so much to agree with. Never thinking about old love when going into a new relationship. And we always love another one in a different way and for different things. Also we change. It can never be the same as it was before. |
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Edited by
Pansytilly
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Sat 06/20/15 11:18 AM
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"first love never dies" I would say that the love that gave us most never dies. For me, the first one was a disaster, but taught me a lot - what I should never be and what I should never alow to happen with me. But the second one - that was a love that never died, only changed into beautiful memories, into gratitude, uplifting me and giving me strength when life knocks me down. And surprisingly, it did not have influence on any of my relationships, keeping my attention somewhere else. On the contrary, it made me better for any other man that came afterwards, made me more loving, more understanding, more tolerant. "love is lovelier the second time around"
Maybe it is true for somebody, but for me personally no, it never happened. Because when in love I�m trying to do everything I can to keep it alive, going away only when I did everything I could and there was no point for staying. And love disappeared. Couple of weeks ago I met my ex on a party with our mutual friends. He wanted me back and I asked him why when he did everything to separate us. He told me that he did what he could to forget but he couldn�t, that I am so very attractive. I asked him what is so attractive about me and he said that I am not a model, but I am so loving, caring, giving all... Although so dam n stubborn, too :). But I felt nothing toward him. Gave all I could to save it and now for me he was just someone I knew, with whome I can talk and laugh but have no interest in reviving old things. And that is how it always happens. So for me, there is no second time. for me...my first love(first relationship) was the one where i learned the most...it became so toxic for both of us to maintain the relationship. we were young, immature, and still needed to find ourselves (ie. too stupid to know any better)... he had been a good friend and i still care for him, even if we had no more contact for years after we ended the relationship. then he contacted me for a while, then eventually stopped. it always made me happy to know that he is happy and succeeding in his endeavors. recently, i had a conversation with a friend about him. made me think of reaching out to him this time around... |
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I wouldn't worry too much about either of them, personally so i guess it's "once is enough"? At least I do not worry about it. |
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"first love never dies" I would say that the love that gave us most never dies. For me, the first one was a disaster, but taught me a lot - what I should never be and what I should never alow to happen with me. But the second one - that was a love that never died, only changed into beautiful memories, into gratitude, uplifting me and giving me strength when life knocks me down. And surprisingly, it did not have influence on any of my relationships, keeping my attention somewhere else. On the contrary, it made me better for any other man that came afterwards, made me more loving, more understanding, more tolerant. "love is lovelier the second time around"
Maybe it is true for somebody, but for me personally no, it never happened. Because when in love I�m trying to do everything I can to keep it alive, going away only when I did everything I could and there was no point for staying. And love disappeared. Couple of weeks ago I met my ex on a party with our mutual friends. He wanted me back and I asked him why when he did everything to separate us. He told me that he did what he could to forget but he couldn�t, that I am so very attractive. I asked him what is so attractive about me and he said that I am not a model, but I am so loving, caring, giving all... Although so dam n stubborn, too :). But I felt nothing toward him. Gave all I could to save it and now for me he was just someone I knew, with whome I can talk and laugh but have no interest in reviving old things. And that is how it always happens. So for me, there is no second time. for me...my first love(first relationship) was the one where i learned the most...it became so toxic for both of us to maintain the relationship. we were young, immature, and still needed to find ourselves (ie. too stupid to know any better)... he had been a good friend and i still care for him, even if we had no more contact for years after we ended the relationship. then he contacted me for a while, then eventually stopped. it always made me happy to know that he is happy and succeeding in his endeavors. recently, i had a conversation with a friend about him. made me think of reaching out to him this time around... I think that's a great attitude to have for an ex. At the same time a little sad that it didn't work for such good friends. :) |
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Edited by
Pansytilly
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Sat 06/20/15 11:31 AM
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"first love never dies" I would say that the love that gave us most never dies. For me, the first one was a disaster, but taught me a lot - what I should never be and what I should never alow to happen with me. But the second one - that was a love that never died, only changed into beautiful memories, into gratitude, uplifting me and giving me strength when life knocks me down. And surprisingly, it did not have influence on any of my relationships, keeping my attention somewhere else. On the contrary, it made me better for any other man that came afterwards, made me more loving, more understanding, more tolerant. "love is lovelier the second time around"
Maybe it is true for somebody, but for me personally no, it never happened. Because when in love I�m trying to do everything I can to keep it alive, going away only when I did everything I could and there was no point for staying. And love disappeared. Couple of weeks ago I met my ex on a party with our mutual friends. He wanted me back and I asked him why when he did everything to separate us. He told me that he did what he could to forget but he couldn�t, that I am so very attractive. I asked him what is so attractive about me and he said that I am not a model, but I am so loving, caring, giving all... Although so dam n stubborn, too :). But I felt nothing toward him. Gave all I could to save it and now for me he was just someone I knew, with whome I can talk and laugh but have no interest in reviving old things. And that is how it always happens. So for me, there is no second time. for me...my first love(first relationship) was the one where i learned the most...it became so toxic for both of us to maintain the relationship. we were young, immature, and still needed to find ourselves (ie. too stupid to know any better)... he had been a good friend and i still care for him, even if we had no more contact for years after we ended the relationship. then he contacted me for a while, then eventually stopped. it always made me happy to know that he is happy and succeeding in his endeavors. recently, i had a conversation with a friend about him. made me think of reaching out to him this time around... I think that's a great attitude to have for an ex. At the same time a little sad that it didn't work for such good friends. :) thanks...you are the sweetestgirl 
lol...third party meddlings doth makes for misunderstandings and hurt feelings... especially for two teenagers trying to figure out what a relationship is... i actually miss him more as a friend than as a boyfriend.... |
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I wouldn't worry too much about either of them, personally so i guess it's "once is enough"? At least I do not worry about it. im not really worrying about it...just musings...getting some thoughts out before i decide... |
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"first love never dies" I would say that the love that gave us most never dies. For me, the first one was a disaster, but taught me a lot - what I should never be and what I should never alow to happen with me. But the second one - that was a love that never died, only changed into beautiful memories, into gratitude, uplifting me and giving me strength when life knocks me down. And surprisingly, it did not have influence on any of my relationships, keeping my attention somewhere else. On the contrary, it made me better for any other man that came afterwards, made me more loving, more understanding, more tolerant. "love is lovelier the second time around"
Maybe it is true for somebody, but for me personally no, it never happened. Because when in love I�m trying to do everything I can to keep it alive, going away only when I did everything I could and there was no point for staying. And love disappeared. Couple of weeks ago I met my ex on a party with our mutual friends. He wanted me back and I asked him why when he did everything to separate us. He told me that he did what he could to forget but he couldn�t, that I am so very attractive. I asked him what is so attractive about me and he said that I am not a model, but I am so loving, caring, giving all... Although so dam n stubborn, too :). But I felt nothing toward him. Gave all I could to save it and now for me he was just someone I knew, with whome I can talk and laugh but have no interest in reviving old things. And that is how it always happens. So for me, there is no second time. for me...my first love(first relationship) was the one where i learned the most...it became so toxic for both of us to maintain the relationship. we were young, immature, and still needed to find ourselves (ie. too stupid to know any better)... he had been a good friend and i still care for him, even if we had no more contact for years after we ended the relationship. then he contacted me for a while, then eventually stopped. it always made me happy to know that he is happy and succeeding in his endeavors. recently, i had a conversation with a friend about him. made me think of reaching out to him this time around... I think that's a great attitude to have for an ex. At the same time a little sad that it didn't work for such good friends. :) thanks...you are the sweetestgirl
lol...third party meddlings doth makes for misunderstandings and hurt feelings... especially for two teenagers trying to figure out what a relationship is... i actually miss him more as a friend than as a boyfriend.... gosh I would say the exact same thing about my most recent ex....we were such goofs together. I miss the friendship and stupid jokes more than the sex etc.... |
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I think the more I ponder either of these questions leaves me less time to love but I what iam sure of is everytime I love its with my heart and soul
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gosh I would say the exact same thing about my most recent ex....we were such goofs together. I miss the friendship and stupid jokes more than the sex etc.... haha! well...he was my first love after all...and that first kiss he gave was a whopper...toe-curling, heart-stopping, electric and left me breathless....lol... could've been the hormones, tho 
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Edited by
Pansytilly
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Sat 06/20/15 11:40 AM
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I think the more I ponder either of these questions leaves me less time to love but I what iam sure of is everytime I love its with my heart and soul that's what we all would like to say....of course, when it boils down to it...it's always a conflict of heart vs head... of course, which head probably depends on gender...
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"They" always talk a lot of chit. "They" usually don't know chit. Unless "They" is the government......cause those "They" be watching you always. Haha!
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"They" always talk a lot of chit. "They" usually don't know chit. Unless "They" is the government......cause those "They" be watching you always. Haha! they...refuse to be named and shall remain anonymous 
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