I'd let them decide what to give me.
Most guys are going to get turned off with demands and expectations.
If they are going to give me anything they are going to rationalize that they're "helping" me, or showing how much they "love" me.
If I start expecting or demanding things, then I basically throw it in their face that I'm only around them for their money.
Demanding something sets up an ultimatum. People don't like ultimatums.

It would be in my best interest to maintain the illusion that it's about more than just or solely money and expensive gifts.

If what they gave me wasn't useful or enough...then I'd find another sugar daddy.


Probably.
If you mean someone that is going to chase you down and give you everything your heart desires, while at the same time telling you what to do, demanding you behave a certain way, dress a certain way, and enforce rules on you as long as you live under their...gifting roof, sure, there is something like that.

I think what is far more common though is pet master.
They'll buy you pretty collars with ownership tags, set you up in a nice dog house, dress you up in nice clothes so you can play at being people for their amusement, choose when and how they want to play with you, tell you they "wuv" you and what a good girl you are, but otherwise just ignore you out in the yard until they need you, and if you ever do something against the rules they'll make sure to rub your nose in it and make sure you don't do it again with more chains and rules, if not just driving you out into the middle of nowhere and just kicking you out of the car.

Next question.

sometimes

why, are you looking?

hahaha epic

I can blog..put a thread about whatever I want.

it has nothing to do with me.

All the time with this one.

QualityOrQuantity does seem to be preoccupied with the subject...

The question "is there anything like a sugar daddy?" kinda denotes you might be something of an oppurtunist.
Smarter men already know now to stay away from you if you want a sugar daddy, but if you're just curious about it, want to talk about it...well, it's a really short conversation to have and the subject matter really isn't all that interesting.
Had a really awkward date with a 20-something a few years back, and she was really preoccupied with finding someone to marry from a good, wealthy family. I asked her why, and her response was so stupid I nearly choked on my wine: "So he can buy me all kinds of expensive ****, and I can lounge by the pool all day."
Needless to say, the date ended with me going to a bar and chatting up someone a lot more down-to-earth and winded up getting a number.
dunno what happened to my date, but someone told me that she got what she wanted...and then got a divorce when the sugar daddy found out what kind of girl she really was.
Personally, I can't stand entitled heiress attitudes, or people who think they should own the world, or put too much emphasis on material things to the point that they believe that its all that matters.
Sugar mama's aren't in it for the love; they're in it for the materialistic opportunity.
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