I just began talking to a lovely lady and she says that she's into bad boys. But the way I've came off to her' has been as if I'm such a good guy. seems like i only have her attention through humor.. how do i show her my rough and rude side without making her run away!

How about being honest...

IMO - Run away from this woman. She is TROUBLE.
And you probably deserve much better.

Find one that excepts YOU as YOU.
And think with your head that has a brain.

Beat up her next door neighbor

Why would you want to lower yourself to her level?

Do you have a rough and rude side?

If you really did...would this thread even exist?

Rough and rude usually comes from secure in/and of not giving a crap.

But

you give a crap.


So what makes you think you have a rough and rude side?

Or is it you don't but

so you just want to be who she wants you to be?

Im am thinking of leaving her alone ..i like her but its like she not showing me the time because i came off to nice .. I'm like of course I'm not gonna approach you In a rude way plus I'm being nice i just met you ..seems like woman don't like gentleman the like jerks ....

You didn't ' come off ' in any way. You were just being yourself.
You need to find a higher class of women. And not be so (sexually) attracted to women who can ruin your life.

You must attract ' Ladies ' not women that want ' thugs ' for excitement
* kind of like you want her for excitement... but believe me you wouldn't want want to keep her or take her to see your relatives *

IMO .

If you have to fake it to make it with a female then she is a looser.

Women who say they want thugs are trouble. Especially for someone who really isn't a thug.

Why be rude and thuggish ever for anyone. It is just stupid and dangerous and can get to be a very bad habit and ruin your life.

A real measure of a man is one who is in control of himself and acts rather than reacts.

Does that mean he can't sometimes have passion and strength in his measure. No Most NORMAL women don't want sissy boys but they don't want men who act like animals either.

Sounds like somewhere you are getting mixed messages about what a man is. Consider your sources. Are they the kind of men you really want to be like. Are they making a good representation of men in general?

My rule as a woman has always been would I want a daughter to follow in my footsteps? Would I want my sons to marry a woman like I am? That carries through to what kind of man you want to be.

That of course is not a weak or lazy man who would not protect or provide and love but it does not have to be a bully or pretend to be a bully.