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Topic: Is money a measurement of genuine love?
TMommy Joined Fri 05/10/13 Posts: 9850	Sun 06/14/15 08:29 AM
This smells mighty suspicious if you took money pay him back

simplewoman2014 Joined Fri 08/08/14 Posts: 98	Sun 06/14/15 08:40 AM
This smells mighty suspicious if you took money pay him back Just to clarify, I don't get money from him. He is the one who wants me to send him money.

SassyEuro2 Joined Wed 04/29/15 Posts: 11102	Sun 06/14/15 08:52 AM
This smells mighty suspicious if you took money pay him back Just to clarify, I don't get money from him. He is the one who wants me to send him money. So you are blameless & I can be logical before... coffee. Yippee! Win win... Hhhaaaa!

PacificStar48 Joined Tue 10/02/07 Posts: 13764	Sun 06/14/15 08:56 AM
This smells mighty suspicious if you took money pay him back Just to clarify, I don't get money from him. He is the one who wants me to send him money. Refer to original answer to original post then. Love is not a measure of love. Asking or accepting money is a sure sign of a scammer.

Pansytilly Joined Mon 06/09/14 Posts: 11310	Sun 06/14/15 08:58 AM
oi....round and round this thread went...

PacificStar48 Joined Tue 10/02/07 Posts: 13764	Sun 06/14/15 09:05 AM
This is happening on online relationship,and I can sensed its a form of scam Scam how you took his money first or he expects it back? You keep changing the story . A loan is a loan. Pay the fool and be done with it. If he is asking for more than you borrowed maybe you have a scam but like I said giving money to anybody on line is C>R>A>Z>Y! I won't call him a fool. He is probably too good to be true...an innocent gullible man who's unaware of such scams. Such loans never get paid back...love or no love! Sorry a guy who sends money to a woman on line is a fool. I have heard all the arguments about being in love or feeling sympathy but the bottom line is a guy who sends a woman on line money is living a fantasy life. Soon he will be crying how the world is cruel to him when he cut his own pocket open. After the age of about ten a person knows you can not buy love. It is a ploy for attention, sex, or servitude. Or some "test" to weed out the prostitutes. A decent woman would not ask for or accept money from a stranger.

Leigh2154 Joined Sun 10/02/11 Posts: 16479	Sun 06/14/15 09:12 AM
What I mean to say, if your bf lend you money and you cant send him coz you are also in need. Is it mean you abandoned him already? And is it a measurement of true care and love? Don't ask to borrow money FROM ANYONE unless you are absolutely sure you can pay it back ....You state quite clearly that your boyfriend LOANED you the money...And yeah, the choice to abandom him is all yours, but doing so does not release you from the moral obligation to PAY BACK THE MONEY YOU BORROWED from him....You already know this though, don't you....

ciretom Joined Wed 06/18/14 Posts: 4953	Sun 06/14/15 03:17 PM
Is money a measurement of genuine love? It can be. It's just not all that smart of one unless both people are well off or financially comfortable. If one person is poor, and the other isn't, it's not a good measurement. If they're both poor, it's a bad measurement. It will cause more problems than it's worth. Measurements of genuine love tend to be clear to the people in the relationship that it is an actual means and attempt at communicating love. If there is miscommunication, if there is question as to meaning, then there isn't really love in the relationship. It's more important for a measurement of genuine love to be understood, than it to be a sacrifice.

Goofball73 Joined Mon 11/05/07 Posts: 33913	Sun 06/14/15 06:05 PM
If your partner is asking you to help him financially, and you can't help him coz you are also in need and striving also to survive financially. Is it mean you don't love and care for him? Is money a measurement of true love? Indeed. Once I find a chick to pay for my tummy tuck I will fall madly in love with her and let her enjoy my new six pack abs.

isaac_dede Joined Sat 11/24/07 Posts: 10632	Sun 06/14/15 06:40 PM
before I respond. ..maybe something us getting lost in translation. ... so op, has your bf EVER sent you money?

SitkaRains Joined Thu 10/09/08 Posts: 17228	Mon 06/15/15 06:10 PM
before I respond. ..maybe something us getting lost in translation. ... so op, has your bf EVER sent you money? To add for a bit more clarification...Did you or BF send money to each other???

mightymoe Joined Sun 11/19/06 Posts: 37362	Mon 06/15/15 06:12 PM
If your partner is asking you to help him financially, and you can't help him coz you are also in need and striving also to survive financially. Is it mean you don't love and care for him? Is money a measurement of true love? yes...the only measure

TMommy Joined Fri 05/10/13 Posts: 9850	Mon 06/15/15 06:16 PM
Yep its why we got a curse jar in the house for all those times ya forget and let a big nasty come out Now ya gotta pay

no1phD Joined Tue 01/07/14 Posts: 27442	Mon 06/15/15 06:17 PM
damn straight!! and you better have lots of it!! it ain't cheap to keep me lol

regularfeller Joined Sat 11/10/12 Posts: 2394	Mon 06/15/15 07:50 PM
If money is the measurement of love, that means love is only 6.14 inches long.

SuzQ66 Joined Thu 03/26/15 Posts: 1969	Mon 06/15/15 07:55 PM
Unless you lay the bills down end to end....

regularfeller Joined Sat 11/10/12 Posts: 2394	Mon 06/15/15 08:01 PM
Unless you lay the bills down end to end.... some of us might be a little "short changed"

SuzQ66 Joined Thu 03/26/15 Posts: 1969	Mon 06/15/15 08:12 PM
Me too, pennies aren't very big, lol

TMommy Joined Fri 05/10/13 Posts: 9850	Mon 06/15/15 08:19 PM Edited by TMommy on Mon 06/15/15 08:20 PM
Shoot its all good we will just take this jug uh I mean jar pass it around and take up a collection

SuzQ66 Joined Thu 03/26/15 Posts: 1969	Mon 06/15/15 08:26 PM
Shoot its all good we will just take this jug uh I mean jar pass it around and take up a collection When I read "jug" then "jar" I was thinking of 'shine, you know, drink your troubles away!