should I change anything

Add more photos
Take out word lonely
makes you sound needy

Map,
I have read your posts and I have looked over your profile and the pervasive sadness bothers me. So I am going to just suggest, at this point, you focus on picking some life goals, making some pals in the forums, and let this whole dating thing take a back seat for a while. Especially something that is kind of tough as having someone else do your inventory.

You are a pretty, sweet, and I bet a very nice gal. When I feel you have rested some, found your footing, pumped your self confidence level back up I will be glad to help you tweak your profile and cheerlead you in the dating arena.

Right now I think I would put it on for friends only and that should help you keep some of the people who are tearing you down at bay. Good luck. I will keep you in prayers. You are welcome to write ocassionaley if you want to have a chat. Star

Thanks it has been a rough year I thought I was ready guess your right I still need to work on ne

Thanks it has been a rough year I thought I was ready guess your right I still need to work on ne

Sometimes its a good idea to sit back and recup for a bit if you are feeling frustrated. I think spending time in forum visiting is good idea

Well I would encourage you to think of it as "investing in you" not so much as work. Work implies it is more laborious when sometimes just doing fun things that make you feel good and more confident, rested, and ready. This is summer where many fun opportunities to learn new skills are available. Swimming is of course one of the things that come to mind first but gardening, sports, dance classes, DIY at the hardware stores or Habitat for Humanity. Anything creative always rejuvinates me and my social circle. Parks and Recreation always gears up in the summer; local museaums have volunteer trainings that are and instant circle of cool people.